Eve Finds Her “Adam” in an Unexpected Package Worth a ‘Maximillion’


Woke up this morning with my inbox full of folks wanting my take on the big news that celebrity Eve is swirled up pretty serious with her British boo, … [Read more...]

Blog to Follow > > > The Blasian Narrative


I first found out about this blog when one of it's writers, Robert Darrien, reached out to me for a feature on SWIRLING. Check it out here. I … [Read more...]

Three Days Till Thanksgiving. Are You Ready to Meet His Parents?

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It can be the most stressful event swirling couples go through. After it happens, some won't make it. Some will question everything. And some will … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part IV: “The Appeal”


Apologies for the parts of this that I have gotten into in response to various posts previously, but not everyone reads every thread.  In my last … [Read more...]

Twenty Six Year Old Southern Guy Takes On Swirling in the South, Starts Blog

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OMG he's adorable. He calls himself, "YoungTeach" because yes, at 26, he's young, and works as a music teacher to a predominately African … [Read more...]

Ukraine Swirl on the Big Screen!

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I am a certified Swirl Hunter and can find black women swirlers or swirl-related news in the outer most regions of the Earth.  Imagine my surprise … [Read more...]

Take Your Show (a)broad!


Ladies, many of you want to go to Europe, Asia or Australia. I am an advocate of international travel if for nothing else, the experience, different … [Read more...]

Five Reasons You’re NOT Ready to Swirl

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Thousands of people come to this site every day. Some are curious about interracial relationships. Some are already happily swirled, others are hoping … [Read more...]

EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part IV, “The Look”

This has been an interesting experience; this Swirling thing.  Something that I have already discovered is the shocked or surprised look that people … [Read more...]

“White Men Best Natural Allies in Battle to Counter Negative Misconceptions of Black Women,” Says Oakland Rainbeau

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You might remember the video I posted last week featuring the unseen white guy who commented at a SWIRLING event Janice and I attended hosted by Meet … [Read more...]

Ready to Join the Convent? Nine Tips to Make Dating Easier.

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Before you throw in the towel and give up dating altogether, take inventory of what's not working. Take a look at SwirlQueen's … [Read more...]