Swirling Singles

We Had to Do It. There Was Too Much Demand.

In the seven years since I started Beyond Black & White, published Swirling, and became the brand ambassador for InterracialDatingCentral.com, the...
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The Four Letter Word that Makes Your Online Profil...

I get countless letters from young women who claim to have terrible luck when it comes to online dating. What’s puzzling is, upon review of thei...
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Dating: 6 Things You Can Do to Increase Your Chanc...

While online dating has changed the game, it’s not for everyone. Some of you prefer some alternatives. Here’s a few tips on how get your ...
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Climb Those Walls! Toby Macguire Seen Kissing a Si...

I love this little bit of cheeky news, because I’ve always like Toby Maguire–he has that nerdy/sexy thing happening. Sorry about his recen...
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Biracial Actress, Meghan Markle is Tied Romantical...

A few of my fans have asked me to touch on all the gossip surrounding the reported budding romance between Prince Harry and actress, Meghan Markle. Th...
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Online Dating Photos: You as a Noun; You as a Verb

Online dating can be hit or miss. Some women have used the company I’ve endorsed for years, InterracialDatingCentral, and have gotten major succ...
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They Met On Our Fan Page! Further Proof Social Med...

I just received an email from David, who emailed me a picture of his wife of two years. They met in Arkansas. ARKANSAS. They met…on our Facebook...
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Adorable You Tuber Preps Her Boyfriend to Meet Her...

Meet Sharifa “MsKibibi” Jarrett is the founder of KibibiHair.com, and author of The 5 Hair Archetypes: Your Guide to Growing Long Hair. Ho...
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QOTW: Reader Sabotages Relationship Prospects Befo...

Hey Chris!I’d just like to hear your opinion on my current situation.I’m a 21 year old female in her final year in school.I’m studyi...
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Regularly Scheduled Programming: Have You Seen the...

We’ve been talking a lot of social justice stuff, and you know I’m all in. But this blog can walk and chew gum at the same time, so I invi...
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So…Who’s Fault is It? 92% of Biracial ...

If you’ve been on social media long enough, and have known my tireless crusade with “No Wedding No Womb,” and trying to find solutio...
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It’s Loving Day…Are You Allowing Yours...

Today is a big day in the interracial dating community. It’s the day (and weekend) we celebrate the landmark Supreme Court decision, Lovings vs....
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How’s Swirling in the South? BB&W Goes ...

We’ve discussed how interracial relationships, and peoples’ openness (or not) to it often depends on the region in which you live. So I fi...
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Carrie: Making Love to ‘The Golfer’

  As I lie in a hospice bed awaiting the answer to the extant question, ‘What’s wrong with me?’ I wondered… What really is wrong with me?  ...
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