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When Family Openly Scoffs Your Interracial Relationship

It's my last day in San Francisco, and I have yet to got back to my family's home. The schedules haven't meshed, but I wonder if some part of me … [Read more...]

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Black Women Need to Start “Swirling Into Reality” Says Kola Boof

“Swirl Into Reality” By Kola Boof “Swirling”—a social term that refers to the recent interracial dating boom in America is now a crucially important … [Read more...]

Leimert Park Book Fair Authors Reception

Calling All BB&W Los Angeles Folks: Come See Me & Janice Talk SWIRLING at the Leimert Park Book Festival!!

This is my first time attending the Leimert Park Book Festival, but this is a big deal. I'm pinching myself that Janice and I will be part of the … [Read more...]

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AWESOME SAUCE! “Awkward Black Girl” Star, Sujata Day Joins Us for the SWIRLING San Diego Bash!!

You probably know her as "J's" best-buddy, "CeCe," who's always giving J "awkward" interracial dating advice. The beautiful and HI-LAR-IOUS Sujata Day … [Read more...]


A Response to “Do You Want to Date a White Guy…?” Article

What follows is a response to an article titled, "Do You Want to Date a White Guy or a Guy Who Just Happens to be White?"   A while back a … [Read more...]

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Young Black Girls and the Future of Swirling

By Bobbie Genus While visiting my family the last time I was in my hometown of Houston for the holidays I entered my twelve-year-old niece’s … [Read more...]

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IRR Book Excerpt: “Dirty Secrets”

Interracial romances are the hot thing to download of Kindle these days.  I have a hunch it's because some folks like to read about other folks … [Read more...]

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“Swirling” Isn’t Just for the Ladies: Guys are Loving It Too!

When Janice and I started writing SWIRLING, we basically had black women in mind, and the relationship dynamics interracial and intercultural … [Read more...]


‘Swirling’ Featured on…ESSENCE!!

Miracle of miracles, Jesus loves me and all that jazz. News of Swirling came out today, Loving Day, on...wait for it...wait for … [Read more...]

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(Pre) Loving Day Celebration: “Swirling” Book Giveaway!

For many of us on this blog, the Loving Day, the anniversary of the 1967 ruling that legally sanctioned Richard and Mildred Loving's marriage like a … [Read more...]

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Question of the Week: “I’m Over 40–Am I Too Old to Swirl?”

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Reserve While You Still Can: Grand Del Mar SWIRLING Event Booking Up Fast!

I'm super excited to formally announce that we're having our big SWIRLING shin-dig at The Grand Del Mar's Club M in San Diego. Sponsored by The Grand … [Read more...]


Take a Listen: My Inteview with Yolanda Shoshana of Women’s Radio

Haven't heard it yet? She and I talk SWIRLING, of course, and why black women often feel like they need permission to date out. Listen … [Read more...]