New Dating App Uses Your DNA to Match You with a M...

If you think you’ve seen it all, then you probably don’t want to know about Pheramor, a dating app that uses your DNA to get you a romant... READ MORE

QOTW: Addressing Black Women’s Insecurities ...

I received this letter from a white man who has dated interracially for decades. He’s noticed something unfortunate with the women he’s da... READ MORE

Do You Deal with Guilt About Leaving the ‘Bl...

It’s been a long time since my black card was withdrawn, and honestly I mostly could care less. But because of the work I do, I have to have som... READ MORE

Jessica Chastain Highlights What’s Wrong wit...

Actress Jessica Chastain is on a mission to let you know that she isn’t too happy with how women are being portrayed in movies. And when she say... READ MORE

Henrik: “Submissive Men are STILL Men

To jump straight into the middle, I for one, hate to even think of controlling a woman as it is against the freedom of an individual. I love and adore... READ MORE

If You Still Like R Kelly, We Can’t Be Frien...

I happened passed a conversation on Facebook from a black woman asking if there were any R Kelly fans in the house. Some women replied with delight, n... READ MORE

On Dating and Mating: What Our Mothers Taught Us W...

Black women have been encouraged to “go to school and don’t get pregnant,” with little to no other life skills taught to us. We are advised to d... READ MORE

When They Really Don’t Want You Doing Better...

What if the gaggle of people who were committed to perpetuating the idea that black women weren’t desirable suddenly had a LOT less to talk abou... READ MORE

Harassment? THIS is Harassment!!

The #MeToo movement is in full effect, costing people their jobs, fame, and in one instance, their reason to live. But until you get SHOT TO DEATH bec... READ MORE

How I Unwittingly Discovered a Nigerian Hacking Ca...

It all started when I began actively seeking men for our secret group, Beyond Black & White Singles. I went to financial and investment pages and ... READ MORE

Jamele Hill and How Black Women Police and Shame O...

Let me first open by saying that I am no fan of Stacy Dash. Frankly, she confuses me. She seems a bit…”off.” But I have to jump in t... READ MORE

Another Wedding! Loving Day Retreats!

How ADORABLE is this?! It’s a wedding! Loving Day Retreats, a supporter of this blog and organizer for an amazing couple’s retreat to Sout... READ MORE

SMASHBOX Is a SMASH

I have been on a nomadic search for the perfect purple lipstick that doesn’t make me look ridiculous. My search is over, and hellooooo SMASH BOX... READ MORE

Black Media Swoops In to Remind Us Meaghan Markle ...

Did you see the article published in The Grio today, about their “concern” over the idea that a mixed race woman of African American decen... READ MORE