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If You Still Like R Kelly, We Can’t Be Frien...

I happened passed a conversation on Facebook from a black woman asking if there were any R Kelly fans in the house. Some women replied with delight, n...
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When They Really Don’t Want You Doing Better...

What if the gaggle of people who were committed to perpetuating the idea that black women weren’t desirable suddenly had a LOT less to talk abou...
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Harassment? THIS is Harassment!!

The #MeToo movement is in full effect, costing people their jobs, fame, and in one instance, their reason to live. But until you get SHOT TO DEATH bec...
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How I Unwittingly Discovered a Nigerian Hacking Ca...

It all started when I began actively seeking men for our secret group, Beyond Black & White Singles. I went to financial and investment pages and ...
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Jamele Hill and How Black Women Police and Shame O...

Let me first open by saying that I am no fan of Stacy Dash. Frankly, she confuses me. She seems a bit…”off.” But I have to jump in t...
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SMASHBOX Is a SMASH

I have been on a nomadic search for the perfect purple lipstick that doesn’t make me look ridiculous. My search is over, and hellooooo SMASH BOX...
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Black Media Swoops In to Remind Us Meaghan Markle ...

Did you see the article published in The Grio today, about their “concern” over the idea that a mixed race woman of African American decen...
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Executing The Perfect Progressive Renovation

Every so often, our homes need a facelift. You could be newlyweds putting a personal spin on your first shared place, or you could be redoing the...
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Saucy IR Reading…”Back to Life” ...

It’s a very rare occasion that I can read for pleasure. Because this was work related, I felt less guilty about devouring Back to Life, a spicy ...
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Time To Really Get Honest About Our Weight. #PinkP...

I remember back in 2010, I wrote my first post about black women, their weight, and their dating options. I didn’t hold back–I was brutall...
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Black Girl Travel Founder Says Bravo Stole Her Ide...

Fleace Weaver, founder of Black Girl Travel has a bone to pick with Bravo. Apparently, their new show, To Rome For Love, is a hijack of her own work a...
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Watching “Good Times” as an Adult Help...

Don’t ask me how it happened, but channel surfing today landed me on Good Times. I was initially excited…I remembered all the words to the...
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No Blog Post Today But…Open Thread

I’ll leave you in quiet contemplation as you look upon Marz, our family dog. This is the look on my face right now because my brain is fried. I ...
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Better Ways to Manage Your Weight

Some people it, seems, have a gift of eating anything they want without it showing up as fat pockets in all the wrong places on their body. While othe...
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