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Swirling Singles

Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up...

It’s the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dat...
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Stuff I Bet You Don’t Know that You SHOULD K...

Matthew Hussey is about the most brilliant (and gorgeous) relationships coach I’ve ever met, and I’m not just saying that because he’...
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One Social Scientist’s Advice for Black Wome...

Author’s Note: What you are about to read may bruise your ego. Hard truths are being told here, and while you might wail that the injustice of w...
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Question of the Week: “Help! I’m Suffe...

I got this letter today from a reader. The emphasis is mine. I seem to be dealing with the “Dating a Rainbeau Impostor Complex”.   I can&...
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New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to D...

One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who’ve probably heard from one l...
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Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood L...

#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that’s what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, i...
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What Your Typical Black Woman Means When She Says,...

Having run an interracial dating website for the past three years, I can’t add up how many times I’ve heard that phrase. “GET ME A W...
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One Letter Writer’s Experience Being the Onl...

There’s very few letters I get that move me to immediate action, but this one did. Once you read it you’ll understand why. I bolded the mo...
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QOTW: I’m black, but now I have “white people ...

I’m black, but now I have “white people problems”… My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over 2 years. He (47) and I (44) are divorced....
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Do White Men Who Swirl Prefer Darker Skinned Natur...

A little something me and my writing partner noticed while doing promotion for SWIRLING was that most (bordering on all) of the white guys we saw with...
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The Cost of Not Smiling

By Ashley One perfect summer night in June, I stood on the rooftop of an exclusive hotel in West Hollywood at a swanky event. At first, I made it a pr...
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Man Candy Monday: Who Said Indian Men Ain’t ...

Okay, to show you all just how shallow one needs to be in order to identify, process and discard men, I give you Exhibit A. Upen Patel is a hot, gorge...
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QOTW: On Hair…The ‘Kinky’ Discus...

Got this question from a subscriber on my You Tube channel. She seemed pretty desperate so I moved her to the front of the queue… When do you th...
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Sixty Days of (Mostly Sucky) Dating, By Guest, ...

60 Days of Dating By Ashley After a considerable hiatus, I decided to throw myself back into the dating world. Thanks to social media apps like Tinde...
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