Beyond Black and White Valentine’s Day Gift ...

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and for the romantics at heart, this is the ultimate day of love for the whole year. And apologies to... READ MORE

A Different “Defense of Marriage”

It's been suggested that we release "marriage" from government, give it entirely & symbolically over to religious institutions, and use civil unions u... READ MORE

Come Hither: Moving On After a Loss (Pt 1)

If you live long enough you'll realize that finding a special love is no easy feat. When we come across that man or woman that makes our days brighter... READ MORE

BB&W After Dark: So…Your Man Has a Foot...

Tracy Renee Jones talks about fetishes. Hide yo' kids...... READ MORE

Does Sexy Have an Expiration Date?

Today is my birthday. Try as I may, I'm sitting here focused on the wrong perspective and "the real" meaning behind my turning 39 years old. I'm... READ MORE

Is There a Conspiracy in the Traditional Black Chu...

Is church keeping you single?... READ MORE

Learn Behavioral Economics, Improve Your Love Life

Who knew players were just armchair behavioral economists?... READ MORE

For Colored Girls, Who Look in the Mirror and Thin...

Beauty doesn’t live in the mirror of many black women, and contrary to what you may think, this is not a “complexion issue” because... READ MORE

Me and You against the World: How Chibi and David ...

David and Chibi met through BB&W and the Facebook group, Asian Men, Black Women United. David, who is Hmong, and Chibi, a black woman, have faced trem... READ MORE

Stop Wasting Time (and Precious Eggs) on Noncommit...

Stop Wasting Time (and precious eggs) on Noncommittal Partners!... READ MORE