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Loni Found her Love: Swirling on The Real, Part 2

The Struggle is Real In my last article, I did a breakdown on the first part of The Real’s interracial dating conversation last week. I thought that...
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A Modern Love Triangle: White Women Allies, Black ...

Oh, the ties that bind. As the proverb goes, a cord of three strands is not easily broken. I am sure that I do not need to lay the foundation for our ...
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He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Penelope and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interview...
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Trini and Jay’s Love, Part 2

Today’s article continues on our spotlight a new couple, Trini and Jay. Trini was so kind as to speak with me about her 26-year marriage to Jay. Thi...
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The Great Debate Between Me and Matthew Hussey: Sh...

Subjects for the Question of the Week often come in themes. Lately I’ve gotten a lot of questions for men and women conflicted about starting wo...
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Sad News: Former BB&W ‘Hottie’ Su...

I received some devastating news from my friend, Niki Chambers, who told me that my long-time Facebook friend and former “Hottie of the Week,...
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It’s Not Always Easy To Love Me. But I Thank...

I recently got an email from a supporter of mine who was worried about all the rumors going around about me–you know, the ones that say I’...
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Relationship Tweet Chat Today, 4PM PST/7PM EST

I get so many relationship questions that I often can’t get to them all. But today, I’m going to be part of a tweet chat with my fellow co...
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Beyond Black and White Valentine’s Day Gift ...

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and for the romantics at heart, this is the ultimate day of love for the whole year. And apologies to...
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A Different “Defense of Marriage”

It's been suggested that we release "marriage" from government, give it entirely & symbolically over to religious institutions, and use civil unions u...
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Come Hither: Moving On After a Loss (Pt 1)

If you live long enough you'll realize that finding a special love is no easy feat. When we come across that man or woman that makes our days brighter...
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BB&W After Dark: So…Your Man Has a Foot...

Tracy Renee Jones talks about fetishes. Hide yo' kids......
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Does Sexy Have an Expiration Date?

Today is my birthday.Try as I may, I'm sitting here focused on the wrong perspective and "the real" meaning behind my turning 39 years old.I'm...
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Is There a Conspiracy in the Traditional Black Chu...

Is church keeping you single?...
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