Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men

From time to time it assists one’s palate to try new things. You who sit and drool over traditional favorites and refuse to consider anything ou... READ MORE

African vs. African American: Can We Still Legitim...

When I learned of the young black man who got accepted to ALL ivy league schools, I cheered. I posted it on my Facebook page and said, “More bla... READ MORE

It’s Not Always Easy To Love Me. But I Thank...

I recently got an email from a supporter of mine who was worried about all the rumors going around about me–you know, the ones that say I’... READ MORE

Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – The Ba...

  I stumbled across this video of the fabulous Barbara Hillary a couple years back and revisited it today.  As a relationship coach, I meet man... READ MORE

Message to the Lurkers: Not All of Us Are Preachin...

I know there are Hella people that come through here to read, and I understand like anywhere else, its hard to step out of your safe corner and make f... READ MORE

10 Mentoring Activities That Urban Kids Can Use...

I'm so stoked to see that roaring interest in actually inquiring into the needs of the po' innah city youfs. After all, one can't be expected to achie... READ MORE

My Advice to You…..Consider the Source

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ... READ MORE

Will Looking at Images of Fit Women Help Black Wom...

What is Fitspiration?... READ MORE