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Man Candy Monday: Able Bodied Men...

From time to time it assists one’s palate to try new things. You who sit and drool over traditional favorites and refuse to consider anything ou...
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African vs. African American: Can We Still Legitimately Clai...

When I learned of the young black man who got accepted to ALL ivy league schools, I cheered. I posted it on my Facebook page and said, “More bla...
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It’s Not Always Easy To Love Me. But I Thank You For I...

I recently got an email from a supporter of mine who was worried about all the rumors going around about me–you know, the ones that say I’...
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Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – The Barbara Hill...

  I¬†stumbled across this video of the fabulous Barbara Hillary a couple years back and revisited it today.¬† As a relationship coach, I meet man...
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Message to the Lurkers: Not All of Us Are Preaching to the C...

I know there are Hella people that come through here to read, and I understand like anywhere else, its hard to step out of your safe corner and make f...
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10 Mentoring Activities That Urban Kids Can Use……...

I'm so stoked to see that roaring interest in actually inquiring into the needs of the po' innah city youfs. After all, one can't be expected to achie...
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My Advice to You…..Consider the Source...

Sometimes its hard to know what to say when dealing with people in general. Of course, we all want to feel like our opinions are valued and we're all ...
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