Your wish is our command.
Were there no discussions about displaying a little variety in the melanin spectrum? I mean… What really being said here?
Dear Roxanne, I have to say that as a fellow black woman blogger, I’m disappointed in you. It appears that your impression of the hair God gifted you with is inferior to the straight silky hair of the people who first taught you that your unique beauty couldn’t hold a candle to theirs. And I’m […]
First, I’m not even going to give a set up this video from relationship coach, Matthew Hussey. There is no intro needed. After listening to the words, and Matthew rightfully mocking them, you have, in one song, the prime reason women are having so much trouble in relationships. Songs that basically say, “I won’t […]
We love you, Chesca!! And YESSS to the IR flow happening there…;-)
Everyone on Pinterest and Instagram is all over the mermaid look, because make up companies can come up with a dreamy, aquamarine shade that looks like the gills of…well…a mermaid. And while these shades can stand alone, it’s fun to see how you can combine to make a really tight, finished look. It’s easier than […]
This post is not for the regulars. Just like I point out the good, I’m going to point of the bad. Not just bad, but utterly horrible. I was sent an audio interview between an author and blogger, Pearl Jr. and Tariq Nasheed. And after listening to this man’s blatant disrespect this man has for […]
It has to be said. The whole concept of the mass hysteria of black female “fetishization” is a psychological tactic that is being used to keep black women from dating non-black men, and visa versa. Here’s how: Fetishization makes black women fearful of dating non-black men, and is a method to knock a “black beauty […]
Sometimes we think that the whole interracial dating issue is something that younger people don’t really think about. I mean, all that baggage from decades ago has them twice removed, right? Wrong. Racism shows up in the most creative and unexpected ways–and this time, it came in the form of a Hispanic girl who couldn’t, […]
Like everyone else, my husband and I watched in horror as the news about the coordinated terrorist attacks in Paris unfurled. It’s the worst attack on the French since World War II. So…this is sort of…their 9/11. I’ve observed the mass immigration of Middle Eastern and North African refugees, as well as the resistance by […]
The video interview that I did with Angel Ramirez-Jordan this week was insightful content, as long as you skip the comments section. No one complained about our discussion, but guess what they found fault in? My looks (“She’s not that beautiful”) and diction. Apparently I have an “annoying voice” that “sounds of white” it’s a shame.” […]
We’ve talked a lot about preferences vs. IR via serendipity. Some of us have always dated interracially and have a certain “type” that does it for us. Then there’s the majority of us, who took a chance to love in a different way and discovered it was amazing. We were opened up to new […]
The Question: I’m struggling in how to cope in a marriage where I hear racial prejudice and insults. My husband is white, I am African American. He listens to Rush Limbaugh religiously, and makes insulting comments in the form of “jokes.” He is a physician, and I quit my job to be his housewife. I […]
In case you haven’t noticed the new advertisement on the upper right hand corner of the blog, I thought it was befitting fro me to FINALLY tell you what I’ve been up to. At 42–which is TWICE the legal age limit for alcohol–I get carded regularly every time I want to be a bottle of […]
Got this interesting question from someone on our fan page: Hey everyone, I asked this in another group and didn’t really get much feedback; so I hope I get more interest from a more diverse page. My name is Simon. I have, for nearly 5 years of my life, been involved with the occult. I […]
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There’s no question that the BEST time to buy cosmetics is between November and January. Why? Because the gift sets offered have pretty significant discounts and group value. But not all sets are created equal. Too Faced has a holiday packet, and as usual, the colors have a white/silvery cast that can look ashen […]
Geezus lawd this man is fine. And!!! He loves him some black women. And he’s not shy about saying it. Not so much for IR, because he’s kind of like those kind of “keep hope alive” black dudes who really has a hard time seeing any of us crossing color lines…but he does it in […]
So Canada just got really lucky….at least from an aesthetics standpoint, and the recent election of the big ball of hotness that is Justin Trudeau may be just the push I need to get up north to visit the place that I lovingly call, “America Junior.” Okay so ‘who dis?’ He’s the second youngest prime […]
Sooooo, what ya all cooking this year?
At long last I have put the final pieces of my plan in place. After much plotting, planning, scheming, creating diversions in order to elude counter-intelligence and generally behaving like Walter White in his attempt to keep his dirty deeds and sordid secrets hidden, I am ready to make the attempt to ditch this bauble […]