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White Women, Your Men Are Doing Better With Women of Other Races.…

Okay got to admit that that was a little bit of click bait. But that doesn’t mean it’s not true. Looks like white guys who marry, oh…ANY OTHER minority…be it Asian, Hispanic or African American, the households make more money. According to Pew Research, the stats go as follows: In all seriousness, there seems to […]

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5 Tips to Make Your Online Dating Profile Shine…

Today’s dating world is vastly different than it was even ten or fifteen years ago. No longer do we rely on our friends to fix us up with that perfect someone, or hope to catch a handsome stranger’s eye in the produce section at the supermarket. While these scenarios still do take place, the vast […]

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Day One of Matthew Hussey: Setting Goals, Rituals, and Keeping…

I’m so glad that, after four years of knowing about it, I finally made my way to Matthew Hussey Retreat. It’s about much more than how to snatch they guy you’ve always wanted. It’s about making the necessary changes in your life to get what you want out of life–from relationships, career, and self improvement. […]

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My Cousin Just Married Interculturally, and It Was a Beautiful Thing.…

I love when I see beautiful black women who are moving on and maximizing their options to include men of other races and cultures for dating and possible marriage.  Remember I I’ve said a million times–with options comes power, and with power come respect. The Hubster and I just came from the nuptials of my little cousin, […]

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CONGRATULATIONS Friendswmimi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

Congratulations to ♥Michelle Williams and Don Thompson♥ on their Marriage Twenty-Ninth of August Two-Thousand Fifteen Wishing you both many years of happiness and good fortune.

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Four Makeup Prep Products I’m Loving!…

See what’s new with Jane Iredale, NYX Cosmetics and Mally Beauty.

Open Thread: Point Dexter Edition…

Pointdexter by definition: a nerdy person; an extremely smart person; one who dresses in nerdy fashion. By example:     The floor is yours.

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Take a Look at How ‘George the Coon’ Talks to Me, Versus…

Yes; I’m starting to put these dudes on blast. Meet George Truly, ladies and gentlemen. He thinks black women are whores. All of them. Take a look at our exchange on my You Tube channel, regarding a totally respectful yet contrary point of view about the blockbuster, Straight Outta Compton:   Now by his comment […]

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“Help! I’m Worried About Penis Size. Should I Stop Dating…

I know the folks here have this one, so I’m going to post the question and let you take it away. Be gentle. 😉 Good morning, my name is “Jack.”  To start, thank you for taking the time out of your day to read this. I have had one past relationship with a Jamaican woman […]

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Success: Napa Valley Wine Train CEO Apologizes to the 11 Black Women…

Here’s another example of what happens when black women fight for their own honor and take a break from fighting for everyone else’s. This is also a great example of people putting their outrage where their money is. I got wind of the initial story from the Facebook page, For Black Women Only. She gave […]

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A Rare Look At Why Some Black Men Diss Black Women In Social Media…

You might want to take a look at an article that came up on my time line titled, Confessions Of a Former Self Hating Black Man who Used to Bash Black women on Social Media. Much of what is included is what many of us already suspected, but it’s interesting to see it posted so nakedly […]

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False Ideologies Minorities Uphold That Hold Them Back…

    By: Carrie Thompson     From 1965 Watts to current day church and street slayings of minorities, peaceful protests yielding martial law. Campaign rallies labeling every gradient of the brown shade felonious slackers capable of pillaging the nation without the protection of the infallible police. Late night walks and traffic stops equate bloodshed […]

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Matthew Hussey: How Shy Women Can Meet Great Guys…

Flirting can be a tedious job, inducing bouts of sweat and bowel irritation to those who are painfully shy. But even if you’re not, it’s sometimes hard to know just what to say to a guy you’re interested in without looking needy or aggressive. The reason why I love Matthew Hussey’s “Get the Guy” series […]

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QOTW: Advice on How Two Shy People Can Start Getting Their Swirl On…

I got two similar letters recently related to shyness. One from a young black woman, the other from a young, white college student. Dear Christelyn, My name is Aaron Wade and I am a 21 year old college student.  About a week ago a co-worker, J, introduced my to her cousin, M, who is black, […]

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An Honest Look at Black Single Mothers and the Link Between Misogyny.…

A fan of BB&W sent me a link today to a very powerful piece about how some black single mothers raise their sons, and how the methods of harsh and humiliating punishment is fueling the growing hatred manifest in many black men toward black women. Using the scene in Straight Outta Compton, where Dre’s mother […]

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Me and Maxi Cover the 2015 NYX Face Awards, Skin Care, and GIVEAWAY!…

Last Saturday was the fourth annual NYX Face Awards…an event to award one lucky You Tube vlogger $25,000. It’s amazing what these extremely creative and talented people can do. This year, Glam&Gory took away the prize. Here’s one of her video submissions: Since me and ‘Maxi Me’ have a thing for makeup, we were all […]

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AAWG: Alpha, Beta, Average Joe…

Eenie, meenie, miney, moe Alpha, Beta, Average Joe by Savage Tango BAM!! The sound of the door behind me getting kicked in jarred me out of my nap and back into reality. I took my feet down off my desk so I could fully turn around to see what just happened back there, only to […]

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I DID THAT!! Guy Reads Blog, Guy Gets Married.…

I have the best dang darn job in the world. I’m able to encourage people to take chances in love. But when I get stuff like this, I know those pebbles I’m throwing in the pond are rippling far and wide. Christelyn, Like so many have already done I’m sure, I just have to thank […]

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Three Skin-Loving Veggies to Put in Your Grocery Basket Today…

  The last gasps of summer do have it’s benefits, ya’ll. It’s the time of year that fruits and vegetables are readily available at just about every region in the country for a decent price. As you scribble on your grocery list for next week’s shop, don’t forget to add these three: Tomatoes, eggplant, and […]

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Jarad Fogle vs. R. Kelly: How Two Separate Communities Handle Sexual…

I’ve recently been vocal about the notion that people in our community like “a winner,” usually male, who have gained a level of fame and riches to become nearly untouchable and immune to consequences to felonious behavior. So much of what the black community’s pathology has been normalized, nobody wants to put “another black man” […]