Ladies, Do NOT Date Interracially if You’re Too Suspicious of White Men. Please. Just…Don’t. (Letter)

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A non-black man just sent me the email below regarding an exchange he had with a black woman on OKCupid that he found attractive. This woman is so … [Read more...]

Man Candy Monday: Hollywood Hotties Then, and Now

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What's the saying again, "Something old, something new. Something Man Candy, just for you?" Age ain't nothing but a number when it makes a guy just as … [Read more...]

Open Thread: “How Do I Explain My Preference for Black Women without Sounding Like a Douche?”

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Okay well he didn't say that...exactly. Here's what this 20-something white guy actually wrote... Mrs. Karazin,I'm not ashamed and I make it pretty … [Read more...]

Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black Woman’s Second Choice?”

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First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I'm glad you're listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter from … [Read more...]

QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial Relationship-Friendly Pastures?”

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People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at … [Read more...]

Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember April & Henry? They Got Hitched!

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Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a … [Read more...]

Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Back His Wife. You Buying It?

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Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, "Get You Back," and warns all … [Read more...]

Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable ‘Loving Stories’

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If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn't go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to kick … [Read more...]

Who Knew Asian Men Were This Sexy? More of Philippe, Host of the 100% Mixed Show

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My new friend, Philippe Koo is truly one of the most beautiful Asian men I've ever seen in my life. His father is Chinese and his mother is German, … [Read more...]

Utter Hypocrisy: Let’s Talk About All the Dudes Hating On Eve’s Marriage

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Sigh...a segment of people invested in keeping black women in an inferior position (and I say "people," because this group is composed of both black … [Read more...]