Samantha and Freddie: He Knew From the First Date ...

I was delighted to interview Samantha and on her relationship with Freddie. Their relationship will be the first “blatino” couple we feature. I ho... READ MORE

Trini and Jay’s Love, Part 2

Today’s article continues on our spotlight a new couple, Trini and Jay. Trini was so kind as to speak with me about her 26-year marriage to Jay. Thi... READ MORE

Introducing Trini and Jay, Part 1

Today’s article is focused on a new couple, Trini and Jay. Fun fact: She is actually a writer on this site! Trini was so kind as to speak with me ab... READ MORE

Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: A Strong and Uni...

In this article, we will continue to share the story of our first couple from France. Thank you, Katie and Philippe, for doing this interview with me.... READ MORE

Couple Crush! Katie and Philippe: He Found His Bla...

In this article, we will welcome our first couple from France. Katie  has graciously agreed to discuss her marriage with Philippe. I hope you enjoy t... READ MORE

What’s so bad about a pink d**k?

Please note: This blog contains vulgar slang referring to male and female genitals. If you have delicate sensitivities, you’ve been warned.   B... READ MORE

Trini and Jay’s Relationship Building

What challenges have you faced?  I have one crazy sibling who I feel is ‘Americanized’ in not necessarily the ‘best’ way. Other than that, wi... READ MORE

Six Reasons Black Women Should Avoid HBCU’s

  Ah…I remember the movie, School Daze. Spike Lee did an excellent job displaying the dynamics of colorism between sororities and how frate... READ MORE

S. Helena and Naveen, It was Fate

I had the opportunity to interview S. Helena on her three-year marriage with Naveen. Some of you may remember her from one of Christelyn’s in-depth ... READ MORE

For Father’s Day: A Tale of Two Patriarchs

Two famous men died recently, from similar illnesses, at similar ages, both in California hospitals, and I couldn’t help but notice some similaritie... READ MORE

8 Ways Black Fathers Fail Their Children

For many black people, Father’s Day is a tough day to deal with. Whether their father was absent their whole life, or was present, but wasn’t a go... READ MORE

Pink Pill Spotlight: Naomi’s Take, Part 2

In this interview, we will be continuing our first Pink Pill Spotlight. We will explore tips and tricks while on the date. Many thanks to Naomi for su... READ MORE

Loving Day Appreciation Thread!

It’s that time again, where we reflect on the two people, Richard and Mildred Loving, who made it possible for American black women (and the res... READ MORE

Pink Pill for College Girls: Your Degree CAN Keep ...

In the dating world, a fairly common question black women get asked is “what do you bring to the table?”, often by men who have little to offer, y... READ MORE