Would you opt in to single motherhood?

Written by Penelope Farthing This blog originated “No Wedding No Womb”, and we are advocates of character over color and choosing the best man for... READ MORE

It’s October 3rd. Get In! We’re Going Over...

I am not sure if this will become a series, but I am really loving the opportunity to talk about my favourite movies or TV shows, and the lessons we c... READ MORE

Bryan and Chacha: A Custom Life Path Together, Par...

I met Bryan and Chacha through Instagram, as I like to follow accounts where people show off their taste in fashion. I later found out that they would... READ MORE

Bryan and Chacha: Blazing their own path, Part 1

Today’s couple is Bryan and Chacha. I have really enjoyed talking to them about their dating and marriage journey. There are so many tidbits to gain... READ MORE

Cheyenne met her match with Ted, Part 2

Today, we’ll be speaking with Ted and Cheyenne, from Georgia. Many thanks to Khadijah for connecting us.  Ted decided to join us for part of the in... READ MORE

Cheyenne and Ted: He Loved Her Whimsy, Part 1

Today, we’ll be speaking with Ted and Cheyenne, from Georgia. Many thanks to Khadijah for connecting us.  Ted decided to join us for part of the in... READ MORE

Tips for Surviving Hobosexual Season

Written by Penelope Farthing As if dating wasn’t hard enough, between vetting partners to make sure they aren’t a narcissistic sociopath, or broke... READ MORE

How to Shoot Your Shot with A’leia and  Dav...

I met A’leia and David through a mutual Facebook group, and became a fan of their YouTube channel. I’ve included the link below. (Be sure to watch... READ MORE

From LA with Love: A’leia and David – ...

I met A’leia and David through a mutual Facebook group, and became a fan of their YouTube channel. The link has been included below. (Be sure to wat... READ MORE

Modules in the Build a Brotha Workshop

Written by Penelope Farthing Good morning class, my name is Professor Pickmeisha Jones, a colleague of a Pimp named Nick Nack, and I teach black women... READ MORE

Abstinence: Antiquated or Awesome?

Written by Penelope Farthing Last week I talked a quite a bit about sexual health among black women, from tips to prevent getting HIV, to why unprotec... READ MORE

Dating in the Diaspora: Jamaica

Written by Penelope Farthing A common rebuttal to the dearth of American “Good Black Men” is to just get one from other black majority nat... READ MORE

Shut up about hypergamy!

Written by Penelope Farthing There has been a lot of talk of late about black women and hypergamy. What’s hypergamy you ask? It’s just fancy talk ... READ MORE

Trini’s Advice, Part 4

Today’s article concludes our spotlight a new couple, Trini and Jay. Trini was so kind as to speak with me about her 26-year marriage to Jay. In thi... READ MORE