Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!

The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relationship issues, that must mean... READ MORE

Dear Black Women: Never Accept Struggle Dates!

In this age of social media, there is no shortage of material to write about. Since I frequently write about the unique experience of black women and ... READ MORE

Wendy Williams: A Case Study

I haven’t been following this Wendy Williams drama too closely. To be honest, I am not really a fan of hers as she comes off as shady to the point o... READ MORE

The OLDER Woman’s Advantage in Interracial D...

When other women are feeling “washed up,” black women are just getting started–especially if they know how to play the interracial d... READ MORE

Video: How to Catch a Whale 🐳 at Work

Did You Know I Caught a Once Caught a WHALE? (I threw him back though.) Let’s face it. The average person spends a lot of time at work. With all... READ MORE

If you’re a black woman against swirling, yo...

Here’s an unpopular opinion for you: in 2019, if you’re a black woman and against swirling, you are stupid. Okay, stupid is harsh, but you’r... READ MORE

“At least I have a man!” is not a clap...

Imagine with me, if you will. You are single, happy, and doing your thing. You might be in school, working on your degree. Or, you’re working dutifu... READ MORE

St. Paddy’s Day Special – Where to mee...

Aidan Turner, Robert Sheehan, Cillian Murphy, Michael Fassbender, (Northern Irish) Jamie Dornan…Irish men are definitely some lookers. The red h... READ MORE

Lessons to learn from Tamron Hall’s Baby Ann...

There are many benefits in waiting to start a family. Finances are more likely to be in order. Debts are likely to be significantly reduced or paid of... READ MORE

Tamron Hall Is a Stealthy Swirler of the Highest D...

Tamron Hall can keep a hell of a secret. In one fell swoop, she announced that she is eight months pregnant at age 48, and is interracially married. O... READ MORE

You Won’t Believe What White Men are Saying ...

Check out this video and see why more and more non-black men are finding love with black women.... READ MORE

BB&W Interview spotlight: Morshe and James

Morshe and James have graciously taken time to interview with me, all the way from the beautiful state of Hawaii. I hope you enjoy hearing their story... READ MORE

No More “Mr. Wrong” for Mary J. Blige

Legendary singer Mary J. Blige has recently taken on a “No Kendu” attitude (get it?!) when it comes to dating men who make less than her. Her rela... READ MORE

What Does Vetting Mean, Anyway?

  Landlords vet potential tenants, employers vet potential employees. In a market where you are the prize to be won (despite what memes might say... READ MORE