Video: White Men Dish on Why They Love Black Women…The “Darker the Better??”

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I'm becoming more intrigued with the non-Tyler Perry offerings over at the OWN Network. Take a look-see what's coming. Dark Girls, a fascinating and … [Read more...]

Come Hither 101: Tracy Renee Jones Schools Us On How to Enchant the Opposite Sex!

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I got a chance to catch up with some of my BB&W girls last week when we covered the Loving Day Flagship Celebration in New York, and MAN!! was I … [Read more...]

Relationship Red Flags: The Longer You Accept the “Abnormal” the More Normal It Becomes.


Part II of "Spotting Dangerous Men" Series Laneesha started dating Gary when she graduated high school. He was charming and caring, and filled the … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey Talks “Interracial Awakenings” Part II


As promised, here's the conclusion of the chat I had with Matthew Hussey earlier this month. I'm just warning you...something he's going to say at the … [Read more...]

All’s Fair In Love And War: Swirl Edition, Interracial Dating Saboteurs


There are few areas of life as competitive as love. For example, did you know the reason sexy British swirler David Bowie has his trademark eyes is … [Read more...]

Swirling, Young, Beautiful and Disabled?

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 Whitney and Garrett at the Alamo In light of the wonderful discussion prompted by a QOTW that stumped our wise one, I could not help think of the … [Read more...]

Jenn M. Jackson Says, “Cheerios Commercial Philosophers, Have Several Seats”

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Originally posted on Water Cooler Convos. Several folks have reached out to me wondering my opinion about the Cheerios ad heard 'round the world in … [Read more...]

Help! This QOTW Has Me Stumped!!


Because of the sensitive nature of this writer's situation, I feel like I need to not be quick to offer platitudes about how "every foot has a shoe," … [Read more...]

Women are Winning in the Workplace…Kind of

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The Pew Research Center released a report last week under the headline “Breadwinner Moms.” The census-based report detailed findings that 4 in 10 … [Read more...]

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXIII- Meet Me in St. Louis!


Greetings from St. Louis! I landed a much better gig than the one I did last summer in Steamboat Springs, Colorado and without the threat of wildfires … [Read more...]

Matthew Hussey and I Talk “Interracial Awakenings,” Part I


I'm convinced Matthew and I can not do a video together without bursting out laughing. This is one, you'll like, promise. ;-) … [Read more...]