Relationships

Young, Beautiful, Sexy, Talented, Accomplished and...

Both Fawn Stone and Lakesha Yvette Walker were featured as singles on Interracial Marriage and Family, formerly Swirling and Marriage.  I have not be...
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On Justifying Preferences, and Evolving Preference...

Why Do You Feel You Have to Explain? So much guilt I sense in reading some of the notes BB&W followers have about their preferences for non-black ...
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Watch Out for ‘Childmen’ With Patholog...

As an observer and participant in social media, I’m privy to a wide range of belief systems. Some are based in reality. Many are so off the mark...
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Farhia and Jason – Customs, Cultures and Bab...

Farhia and Jason were astounded that their beautiful wedding photographs went viral on the Internet.  The pics of this chic and hip urban couple are ...
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Leona’s Love Quest  OK, Cupid Tap Me Out: I’...

I know I’ve threatened to quit online dating before, but this time, for realsies, I’m done with it. I’ve tried Plenty of Fish, Match.com, Chemis...
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QOTW: Geeky Guys Seeks Girl, but with Strings Atta...

The question… Hello Christelyn, I’m going to be straight forward, how do I grab the attention of a woman as a geeky introvert? By introver...
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Christine and Masa – East Meets West

Masa and Christine This is another online dating success story.  Chris and Masa met in February 2013 on Match.com.  Chris was looking for and foun...
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Television is STILL Not Ready to Make Black Women ...

If you’ve been around for a while, you might know that I watch soap operas. Not just casually either–my DVR is set to Bold and the Beautif...
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QOTW: Should White Guys Date ‘Sister Soldier...

The question… Getting to know a nice African American woman.  She is terrific – she graduated with honors from an elite liberal arts coll...
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Another Letter From an Asian Guy…

Got this letter today, and it warmed my heart. Be encouraged! I enjoy reading your site. |I saw your last article on potentially throwing in the towel...
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The One Thing that Motivates *Manly* Men…

So I know what you’re thinking. Men are motivated by sex, and that motivation means their not always particularly choosey about whom they knock ...
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Asian Men…I’m Getting To a Certain Poi...

There’s no doubt that people of color are constantly jockeying for the spot as model minority status in this country, but no such group strives...
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Join Me and Wes Murphy Tonight on G+: How to Overc...

Getting out there is hard. It’s really hard when you’re shy. And even if you’re not shy, fear of approaching someone and being rejec...
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