A Loving Father’s Advice for Black Women Seeking Good Man Across the Rainbeau

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Our Facebook fan page has been on FIRE lately, what with all the new "Happy Couple Photos" we're posting. We get a flood of notes every day, one of … [Read more...]

How To Be A Strong Black Woman: Follow Oprah’s Example


Everyone and their mother has heard about Oprah's brush with racism in Zurich. In case you haven't, let me give you the scoop. Oprah visited an … [Read more...]

“Getting A Black Man Is The Best A Black Woman Can Do”….Oh, REALLY?????

You all have to excuse me, but I have been having the most interesting conversations with people lately and I just have to relay these talks I've been … [Read more...]

Our Sh*t Is Beginning to Stink: Bill O’Reilly Addresses Out-of-Wedlock Rate, Get Ready for More


The Black blogospere is up in arms again because someone outside of the "black collective" has the nerve to comment on our abysmal 80% out-of-wedlock … [Read more...]

Living a Better Life – Gratitude for BB&W


I haven’t been around as much lately due to work constraints (which is a good thing). More on this later. But I wanted to take time to share how … [Read more...]

Damned Fool: Reasons Women Run to Dangerous Men, Even Though They Know Better


A few months ago I tried to counsel a young woman in her mid-twenties who told me she wanted my help getting away from a man who is a textbook … [Read more...]

Do We Have To Get Rid Of The Strong Black Woman?

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Why do so many of us feel that the strong black woman archetype has harmed us? What's so bad about assertiveness or resilience? We certainly need … [Read more...]

Iyanla Vanzant: “There is no reason to continue to have children with men who don’t honor us.”


AND THE CHURCH SAID....AMEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNNTTTTT! It looks like Iyanla Vanzant is a fan of No Wedding No Womb. There's just so much truth in what … [Read more...]

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The Exotic Okey Doke: How Black Women Got Tricked Out Of Sexy


This post was published on July 26, 2013 by Toni. Things quickly got out of hand in the comment section, derailing into talking about women-friendly … [Read more...]

How Can Black Women Thrive in a Racist Society?

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  I read some articles over the weekend that left me shocked, angry, and speechless. The first was about a high school principal accused of … [Read more...]