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Fan Letter: Black Women are FINALLY Waking Up

  Mark my words–the hateful men of You Tube to make their money degrading black women will soon see their reckoning.  Hi Christelyn. My na...
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How Madison Avenue Keeps Stereotypes of Black Wome...

The media is still at work to remind the world that black women are mannish, hyper sexual and repulsive. Does this photo ring a bell? It’s a scr...
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Exclusive: Kola Boof Reacts to Azealia Banks’...

It truly is ironic that the MOST VOCAL opponent of Skin-Bleaching on earth (Kola Boof), author of the literal bible against bleaching “THE SEXY ...
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Time to Start a Prayer Chain for Azalea Banks. She...

Honestly it breaks my heart that this woman’s tortured mental state is on full display for all the world to see. Now it looks like Azalea Banks ...
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Breukelen Bleu Gives Insight into the Dark Side of...

    You’re heard the lighter, flowery side of the feminine power we can access, now get ready for the darker side. https://www.youtube...
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21, Pregnant with Second Child, Wants to Swirl?!

This letter appeared in my inbox: Hi, I’m a 21 year old black female who swirled once when I was in high school and became pregnant by the white...
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Get Mad if You Want…Femininity for the Win.

After a frequent commenter, Breanna, posted a candid status on Facebook about her frustration about living in an unsafe neighborhood, and the dangers ...
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For Black Women Only: What Femininity Is…For...

I got this question from a reader this morning: Hello! Thank you so much for all you do! I just read your piece on what happened to Breanna. ? That is...
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Black Women, It’s Time to START Practicing H...

**WARNING: DON’T READ THIS ARTICLE IF YOU BELIEVE IN FEMINIST IDEALS TO THE POINT OF JEOPARDIZING YOUR OWN WELL-BEING. NO FOOT-SHOOTERS ALLOWED....
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Video: The Top Three Challenges Black Women Face D...

A woman just leaving a 23-year relationship ask me this question, and I’m glad she did. It gave me a chance to organize and categorize the issue...
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“I Felt Something Inside Me Go Numb.” ...

If there was ever any doubt that the message drilled into young impressionable black women about how we’re the most undesirable, undatable, and ...
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No Organized Defense of Black Women Allows Sh%t Li...

Sigh…when I saw this on my feed, I thought to myself, “how low will this clown show of an election season go? We have real issues to discu...
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Breaking News! Mass Foot Shooting By Black Female ...

Sigh…it this isn’t one of the worst cases of foot-shooting by black women putting “the cause” before their personhood. These W...
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Why are We Still Worried About Who Black Men Date?...

I ran across a video a student at Pace University did highlighting the trend of some black men openly proclaiming they would never date a black girl t...
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