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Coaching: Help a Sister Be Catch the Menz With Fem...

Got this letter from a young girl recently… Dear Christelyn, I love your posts, have read your book and been keeping up with Beyond Black and W...
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When It’s In Your Face, Will You Heed the Wa...

Let me first start by saying that this post is not about black men. This is about black women, and how some of them cling to the need to have a black ...
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Toni: Black Women Losing in the ‘Fairness Ga...

Yep, it’s Toni! You know something is important when I decide to break my “I’m too busy to write or BBW” to write something for BB...
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Who Benefits From Black Women Not Feeling Feminine...

I’m really glad more and more critically thinking black women are beginning to ask the right kind of questions....
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Before You Protest, This is What I Want For You.

Before you read on, know that this post is not referencing any particular protest or activism going on right now. I am speaking in generalities. Siste...
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New Study Suggests Professional Black Women “...

It’s well known that most black women are taught by their parents to get through school, don’t get pregnant, and don’t worry about g...
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Is He Lying To You? Former CIA Agent Teaches You H...

We talk a lot about vetting potential mates, so that we make the best choices for our partners. But let’s face it..there’s a lot of men ou...
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Breaking Point? What’s Up with All These Sto...

I woke up to yet another story of a black woman who brutally killed her child in a restaurant bathroom. She’s 35, most likely a single mother. F...
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Black Beauty: Celebrating Black Women’s Lusc...

By Zara Let’s face it, our lips are so juicy that they go out and buy them – but without wanting to give us the credit where it is due! ...
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Calling All Expats!

We have so many BW here who have worked, taught or studied abroad. On travel posts, a wealth of information often comes out in the comments section. S...
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Carrie Rebounds After False Start with the ‘...

Editor’s Note: This post was created shortly after Carrie’s abrupt ending with you-know-who.  “Ricochet Rebound” By Carrie Thompson Y...
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On Vetting: Beware of “I Can’t Find a ...

I’ve written about this before, but recent events make it necessary to revisit the con game men play to illicit pity and activate the nurturing ...
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I’m the Lead for InterracialDatingCentral.co...

The folks at InterracialDatingCentral.com approached me with the idea of dedicating the entire month of March to a social media campaign to shine a li...
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Video: Sick of the Double Standards When Black Wom...

I just got this note from a fan of my You Tube channel… CK I have a video request I like for you to talk about. I been crying because I am soo d...
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