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Spotting a HVM: What Did Priscilla Chan See in Mark Zuckerberg?!
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The Gift of Shame (Part 1): Is a Little Shame Always Bad?
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Question of the Week: “I Have No Idea How to Flirt!”
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Last Bikini Body Update: I DID IT!!
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Ask A Stylist : Rachel M’s Blue Skirt
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De-stigmatizing Mental Health, and Five Ways to Let the Sunshine In
‘Swirling’ Guilt Can Cause Sisters to Soldier On…
We’ve done little discussions about the “reluctant swirler.” But you probably know this girl as well as I do. She probably dated intra-racially her entire dating life, but just so happened to find a rainbeau that she really, really liked…a lot. They date a while and maybe they get married. But in the back of her mind, she feels a dreaded, secret guilt, one that she can’t share with her significant other, nor anyone else.
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Oprah, and the Pathology of Reveling in Other People’s Misfortune
Gardening 101: Most Important Spring Planting Item Is…
Godspeed: The Art of Agreeing to Disagree
The term godspeed literally means “an expression of good wishes to a person starting a journey”. What kind of journey? In my case, a journey to the realm of “I have nothing further to say to you, so goodbye and good luck!” This can be regarding a specific topic or it can simply mean I have nothing else to say to that person ever. But more often than not, it simply means we’ll agree to disagree and that’s the end of it.
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Hide Yo Kids! Indian Girl, Sex Expert Gives Window Into Indian Sex Culture; Masturbation
We talk a lot about swirling an interculture, but always from a male perspective. That combined with her thoughts on masturbation makes it a BB&W must-see/read.
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Healthy Hair Challenge Update: Bunning It Until the Book Comes Out.
Gonna bun it for a little over a month…ends are getting crispy, and they want to commit suicide.
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The Black Woman’s Bill of Rights: Gentleness and Femininity
To some people, you are a hardened, non-feminine creature and a workhorse until proven otherwise. And even when you’ve attempted to establish you’re anything but, the stubbornly unconvinced may try and use situations and circumstances to “test” you. To bring the “angry strong black woman you REALLY are” to the surface.
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finnspen: She’s Having Salad for Breakfast.
Wha? Salad for breakfast you may ask? Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it. A high protein breakfast with lots of vegetables is an excellent way to start the day. Especially if you’re trying to lose weight.
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Video: Real Talk About Marriage
My buddy Abiola Abrams asked me to do a video about how to balance passion and kids. This will be one of two. I think it’s important that unmarried people and the affianced know what comes after all the guests leave from the wedding ceremony.
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Leona’s Love Quest Part V: Determination without The Dreaded “D wordâ€- Desperation
“The disparaging reaction typically comes from unmarried women who are quick to label any single woman who expresses any effort toward finding love, marriage or companionship with a big, giant “D†for “desperate†like a modern day Hester Prynne…”
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