From Steven, a You Tube and blog fan, “I had forgotten to mention your book Swirling, which is what led me to your material in the first place. I’ve actually read it several times, and I find it very well written and informative. Also, thank you for your support and understanding of me and myRead More…
You Tube is such a crazy, and sometimes ugly place. I often feel like I need a shower after I interact with some of the crazy, disenfranchised, powerless men that want to use black women as gambits in a cold war against white supremacy. We are not born to hold your swords. We are not […]
“SO my question is, would YOU date a white man who admitted that he is a recovering racist and that he had racist parents?” We have covered this before on BB&W. http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/date-marry-racist/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/qotw-should-i-continue-dating-someone-who-might-be-racist/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/qotw-protect-girlfriend-racist-family-members/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/qotw-dealing-racist-friends-family-members/ http://www.beyondblackwhite.com/question-week-self-proclaimed-redneck-love-caribbean-queen-scared-senseless/ However this is such an important topic of discussion we cannot revisit it too often. Shirley20067 minutes ago Since […]
There’s so many, ya’ll! Check it out…which couple is your favorite?
First off, I LOVE this couple. Dude is cuuuuttteee….. This is just so beautiful…looks like Lee, the husband, is stepdad to Maze’s four other kids (wowza) and they have one between them. From what I understand by fans of the channel, Maze had one child by her college boyfriend (black), three more from her ex husband (white). […]
OK Ladies and Gents. Since folks are so darned worried about what we are up to. Some eye candy for you all. Yep. We know what time it is. We know it’s THAT good. Just make sure the kids are not near your monitor. LOL.
I’m on a mission to get Lenon Honor as popular on You Tube as these beastly, self-hating abusers posing as “Black conscious community (BCC)” aka ‘hotep negroes.’ So who is Lenon Honor? He’s a married father of five kids, who promotes the uplifting of the black community in a way that isn’t dehumanizing of either […]
As if we need another reason to love Serena Williams, there’s always more to love. Her Spring 2016 fashion line exclusively sold on HSN unveiled to much fanfare in New York, with the world’s premiere fashion magazine giving her the affirmative nod. Williams called the collection “a little bit retro, romantic, and extremely innovative.” The […]
Anyone with hair higher than 2A worries a little bit on wash day. How much hair will I lose when I finger or comb detangle? How much breakage will be too much? Natural heads know exactly what I’m talkin’ bout. I’ve used many natural conditioners that have nourished and moisturized, but…the tangles and lack of […]
These guys are so unbelievable. Pro-blacks who hate the skin and hair of black women, but worship the offspring of the daughters of men they despise.
Heartache after a break up can be so painful. Your heart literally hurts, and you’re often desperate to make it go away. You might go for back up booty. You might overeat. You might drink too much. You might make yourself so busy so you can’t think about it–at least until you’re lying in your […]
Sigh. Widely criticized (and undoubtedly correct) Daniel Patrick Moynihan, who created a vastly controversial report that suggested that blacks would have a hard time getting ahead in America because of a key problem–BROKEN FAMILIES–reads like Nostradamus. Even back in the 1960’s when the black out-of-wedlock problem was minuscule in comparison today, Moynihan said that even with […]
By ‘FriendsofJay’ I watched the first season of the HBO—Cinemax series The Knick, about a hospital in New York City around the turn of the century. Very interesting in many ways. Of particular interest is a Afro-American doctor, which was VERY unusual in a white hospital at that time. He uses the basement of the hospital to […]
Rihanna threw a party to kick off New York Fashion week and invited all the who’s who, including Kim Kardashian West and Kanye West, Joan Smalls, Gigi Hadid, Zayn Malik, Wiz Khalifa, Joe Jonas, Alexa Chung, Catherine McNeil, Pharrell, Justin Timberlake, Timbaland, Lindsey Wixson, Chris Rock, Lily Donaldson, Jeremy Scott, The Weeknd, Maxwell. Never mind all […]
Just another okey-doke. Take a look and listen.
Ah fall, time for festivals, pumpkins, leaves and kids back to school. We have had a request that BB&W start open threads on a bi-weekly basis so that you all can chat among yourselves on whatever you want to. So here we have it. If you want to continue with a conversation on any given […]
I know Tiger Woods got this a little bit when he upset all the blue bloods with his golfing abilities–well, because black folks aren’t supposed to be good at the “more refined” sports. But the level of bitterness, dehumanization, racism, contempt, and jealously leveled on Venus and Serena has been something along the likes that […]
This here is a prime example of folks advocating for behaviors and lifestyles for others that they would never do themselves. It’s classic. Monsato lobbyist, [name] went on a French news show and said that Roundup, the cancer-causing weed-killer created by the company that wants to keep us from using our own, non-GMO seeds, said […]
There are many falsehoods some black people believe, and that other people believe about us. But none such falsehood is more destructive than “Black people don’t commit suicide. Only white people do that.” Over the years, that stereotype has been challenged as we’ve witnessed high-profile black women succumb to their internal demons and bid the […]
A fan passed this along. He’s so adorable. Okay…so we got the guy from last week, this one, and the fact that my You Tube channel is 34% men (who are mostly non-black) and I’d say there’s definite SHIFT going on in the conversation. 😉
This question came up while I was answering a QOTW, in which a 29-year-old woman was bemoaning her inability to date properly because her parents wouldn’t allow it. She’s still sneaking out of the house. She’s contemplating asking her significant other to get in on the conspiracy. It’s all very Sixteen Candles is you ask […]