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BB&W Special Guest Dishes on Her Experience at a Black Woman/Asian Man Dating Event

Race-Based Dating? I’m a black woman who has always been attracted to guys of different races, but growing up in a segregated city in the Midwest, there weren’t many Asian people around, so I never even thought of liking Asian guys until I was about fifteen. Perhaps it started with all those Hong … Read More...


What Tony Goldwyn means for Black women

No, I am not talking about his breath-snatching, deliciously passionate scenes with Kerry Washington as President Fitzgerald Grant on the TV show, Scandal. Instead, I am referring to his work as a director and producer, as well as his lineage from one of Hollywood’s most prestigious families, which continues to sharply shape the film industry today. Tony was recently interviewed by Tavis Smiley, who has a program on PBS. In response to being asked for his thoughts on diversity and inclusion in Hollywood as a white male, given his family’s roots in showbiz, Tony responded:

Rape of South African Teenager Anene Booysen Is So Horrific The World Must Take Notice

Seventeen-year-old Anene Booysen was found at a construction site after she had been so viciously raped and mutilated that the scene where her body was found resembled a horror movie.

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Day Nine of 28 Days of Heart Health: Floss or Die!

Bacteria festering between your teeth can lead to that crud making it’s way through your entire body.


Chef Bob’s Swiss Steak

Swiss steak is a method of slow-cooking a relatively tough cut of beef, such as a round steak. The meat is browned, and then braised in a tomato sauce. According to rumor, recipes first starting showing up for Swiss steak in the 1930s.

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Swirling in History Part Four: Ada Copeland King

Can you imagine? A white man passed for black so he could marry the love of his life.


OMG Fitz! Olivia! Dear God In Hebbin!!!



He put a ring on it, now what? The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage

I am beginning to believe that “home economics” (keeping and running a household) ties in VERY closely with the ability to attract a quality mate.

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Day Seven of 28 Days of Heart Health: What’s Waist Circumference Have to Do With Heart Disease?

Turns out it’s belly fat, not BMI that determines the risk factors for heart disease.


Come Hither: Moving On After a Loss (Pt 1)

If you live long enough you’ll realize that finding a special love is no easy feat. When we come across that man or woman that makes our days brighter it never crosses our minds that the day would ever come when they are no longer there at our side.


Toni Braxton Plays in the Snow on Lifetime

Toni Braxton gets to “play in the snow” on screen. This Sunday, Lifetime Movie network will be airing an original movie called “Twist of Faith” staring the gorgeous Braxton and handsome David Julian Hirsh. It is an interfaith love story profiling single Christian mother and a Jewish widower. Their passion for music and singing draw them together and they fall in love.

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Macho Little Black Girls Part II: Machoism Kills….No Exceptions.

“I do strongly suspect that this behavior is a sadistic attempt to encourage black women into a mentality and lifestyle that “protects them” from being feminine little girls. Because there are too many predators in the black community who don’t see a sweet little girl. Instead, they see a wet hole just asking for it because she’s a ho anyway.”