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Come Hither: A Lesson in Being a Man Magnet…

Learn from a pro..

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Got “Swirling” and Ready to Date? Online Dating Service…

Read “Swirling” and ready to find ‘yo man? Find him online–for free.

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A New Adventure Tanisha Packs Up and Moves to Daejeonshi, South Korea…

“Other from the occasional stare on the street and my kids wanting to touch my hair, no one really notices me. However, the Asian explosion or being surrounded by Asians has sometimes been overwhelming that one day I started screaming “Godzilla!” to quickly realize that I was in the wrong country.”

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Happy Birthday, Brenda55!…

It’s Brenda’s birthday!!

Chick-Fil-A Proves You Can’t Bully People Into Agreeing With You…

Come hell or high water, Chick-fil-a takes a stance.

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V, The Writer: “Bottom of the Barrel? Stop right there. That’s…

“When I see a black male degrade a black woman, I don’t see the black: I see the beta. I see a man who refuses to compete with other men for quality women; he’d rather just they fall in his lap (and for alphas, the competition is part of the fun). It doesn’t bother me when DBR black men “disrespect” me online, because in order for me to be offended, I have to have some kind of regard for your opinion. Alpha vs. beta. I don’t answer to you.”

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Clueless? Five Non-Verbal Ways To Know He’s Into You…

Have any of you ladies realized or identified these behaviors and are now kicking yourselves while saying, “DOOOHHH!”

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VintageNarcissa: That Awkward Moment When Your Hispanic Boyfriend Gets…

“But whatever anyone thinks his background is, I cannot fathom why anyone would think it okay to call him a cracker simply because he is holding my hand…”

Does A Superior Culture Make the Israeli’s Successful? Mitt…

Mitt Romney is currently on the tail end of his three-nation overseas trip which was ostensibly designed to convince U.S. voters that he is ready to engage in some heavy-duty political wheeling and dealing if he were to become President of the United States. What Mitt Romney and Co. have actually succeeding in doing is offending millions of people via a series of comments that one writer for the Telegraph has famously described as “utterly devoid of charm and mildly offensive”

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Fit Me for a Wig: What Makes a Convincing Hair Hat??…

Help!!!

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Beauty Trends: Eyeshadow Colors for the Rest of Summer…

Are you sporting this hot color? Viva the eggplant!

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Why are Some Black People STILL Living Like They’ll Be Sold Off Any…

The cycle of hopelessness is truly staggering.

Olympic Swimmer Cullen Jones Is Helping to Teach Black Kids How To…

Watch this excellent video of Olympic Swimmer Cullen Jones, who won a Gold medal in the 2008 Olympics in Beijing, talk about both his personal experiences swimming and that of African Americans in general. Visit NBCNews.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy A write-up of the entire segment is available at […]

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Brenda Brody: PRIDE…

“Stop worrying about what somebody else says or wants or does. Be positive. Have you ever seen the way David Bowie looks at Iman? And have you read the love letter Roger Ebert wrote to his beloved Chaz? There are men out there that will love us just like that. Don’t even think about the ones that don’t.”

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What’s That Smell?! What Are Your Go-To Perfumes?…

What are all of you all wearing? What’s good?

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100% Positive: “I Love Black Women Because…”…

We must be on the verge of something great, because the trolls are in full force, sending out their roaches to attacked absolutely everything about black women–from the coils of their, curve of their hips, shape of their lips and wideness of their nose. Nobody wants us. The rainbeaus who love us are “simps.” We’re all “middle-aged,” fat, desperate and eat our young. Did I miss something from the list? Meh. Whatever. Since these sorrowful knuckle dragers are CONVINCED that black women are the most hated, most reviled, most unloved women who should just go die in a corner, I thought I’d give ya’ll an opportunity to disabuse these miserable lots of these notions. All are welcome–ladies, men, children, mothers, fathers, black, white and polka dot. Tell us what RIGHT about us…we’re all listening!

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Black Women, Love and Where They WON’T Find It (Part 1)…

Whether it’s bigots or men who are with you for reasons having nothing to do with love, “it doesn’t matter. You won’t get what you want and need from these people and you are wasting time and energy not drawing this conclusion and electing to move on to the alternative: Persons that DO love and support you.”

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Reason #3,879 Why We Should Disown Mississippi: White Church Refuses…

Geez…I wish Mississippi would just go away.

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Question of the Week: “How Can Black Women Rise from ‘The…

Not sure if this is trick question, but okay; I’ll play.

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The 2012 Summer Olympics Opening Ceremony Was AWESOME…

Here are my top 6 observations gleaned from watching the Olympics opening ceremony…