A few weeks ago, we announced my participation in Laurie Davis’ Click Date Love group coaching series. Since then, we’ve had three sessions, and you know what, I’m actually excited to try online dating again. I haven’t purchased a Match.com membership yet because I’ve been crazy busy working my day job, traveling (post coming soonRead More…
Reader Advisory: This book is part of a series but can be read as a stand alone and in any order. This is book two in the In Aeternum series. Beyond Black and White feature Thanks so much for having me here today. I was asked how I come up with how my characters look […]
I received this question from a woman today, clearly torn about recent events, and unsure if she should continue her interracial relationship. I am in the “beginnings” of dating a white Swedish American guy. After the Ferguson decision, I was heartbroken and I expressed that to him. I asked him tonight to tell me his […]
We got so many responses from readers for the “Happy Couple” contest, but one stood out so much, and touched so many that it really wasn’t hard for us to come up with our first winners. I’m attaching it again below just in case you missed it, but I warn you–you’ll need some tissues. Congrats […]
I hear that our East Coast folks got their first snow today. Just in time for my “frosty” look using Urban Decay’s best-ever Vice 3 palette. This look is so impactful, yet soft and feminine and guaranteed to turn heads at any holiday party. I’ve told you before that this palette is so versatile, […]
For this week’s worship of beauty we are going global. First stop, Latin America. In this post we feature Afro Latina models and actresses. Brazilian Model Emanuela de Paula Carmelita Mendes Gina Torres Lauren Velez Zoe Saldana Ya Ya da Costa Stacy Dash Syesha Mercado […]
It’s Thanksgiving eve and the mass execution of turkeys is done, and the carcass safely nestled in your refrigerator. But before you gorge yourself, grab a can of pumpkin puree–the one you’ve stocked up on so you can make dessert–a create a healthy and filling smoothie. Healthy Pre-Holiday Pumpkin Green Smoothie from Christelyn Karazin on […]
Got this question from a fan… Hi this is probably the first time I’ve reached out to anyone about the issue i have. I’m a 32 yr old white male and I for the first time dated a dark skinned black woman. I fell madly in love with her. I would do anything for her. […]
When I was a kid, we made a lot of road trips to Texas by way of Arizona to New Mexico. By far, it’s some of the most beautiful country I’ve ever seen. You haven’t lived until you’ve seen the purple, reds and pinks of a New Mexico sunset against the gorgeous mountain range. […]
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So Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey are back in court, and this time it’s over Halle’s outrage that Nahla’s father seems to be chemically straightening and highlighting her hair in an attempt to look a fraction less than 1/4 black. This from TMZ: Halle Berry just took Gabriel Aubry to court … claiming he’s trying to make their […]
Many people sense that there is something greater at work in the universe; that humans on Earth are not the sum game of life. Religion often provides helpful answers and guidance to these larger than life questions. Several American black women, myself included, identify with some form of Christianity and find engagement with other Christians […]
I’m mad it took till my 40’s to understand eye makeup. No use crying over smudged eye shadow, though. Better late than never. I recently picked up Urban Decay’s latest, Vice 3 palette, and I think this might be the best one yet. Unlike last year’s Vice 2 (silver/white undertones), the undertones are gold which […]
I’ve watched with some amusement and more than a little bit of incredulity the series of lies and propaganda against black women dating and marrying interracially. In 2010, the argument was, “White men don’t want black women. They only go for white-looking black women.” Simultaneously, I was belittled by black men who said the only […]
How many ways can reality television exploit black women while said black women go willingly off the cliff like lemmings? Better question–when are we actually going to get pissed off enough to vote with our pocket books to get this mess off the air? Because I tell you what, executives are laughing all the way […]
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My name is Matthew – and I’m regular member of the Beyond Black and White Community on Facebook, the Beyond Black and White Google Plus Hangout Group, the Beyond Black and White Twitter presence, and now the Beyond Black and White Forums. I have a story to tell you about my personal weight loss journey. […]
Two things you can count on during the holidays are food and photos. You’ll want to make sure you look your best in all those photos during the parties you attend, and I have a product recommendation for those of you who need minimal coverage to just don’t like the cake-y feel of liquid foundation. […]
Likes and recommendations: Gentle Shampoo and Gentle Conditioner: great smell, cleans and conditions without hair feeling stripped Products to avoid: Leave-in conditioner, curly custard (leaves hair feeling dry and hard; custard flakes Website has ingredients and prices.
As some of you have already noticed, my perspective on life and relationships has changed since I went on the Matthew Hussey Retreat. However, taking more risks and pushing myself out of my comfort zone has not been easy. I can even foresee the potential for things to get even worse. I always tend to […]
People often wonder why I cover the minefield that is black women and obesity. It stems from experience, watching my mother and half-sister eat, and eat, and eat themselves literally to the brink of death. I’ve lived my life modeling for myself and others the exact opposite of what I witnessed, because I saw how […]