Chef Bob: Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera

Alaskan Snow Crab Pasta Primavera Serves 24. Having a party, or just want to impress your friends?  This is the ultimate party food. A fresh veggie medley tossed in creamy Alfredo sauce and served on a bed of pasta, served with straight from the icy waters of Alaska, with up to a half pound of … Read More...


The Great Debate: Should WM and BW Get Together Because Their Same Race Counterparts Are High Maintenance? Some Say Yes

Anyone that hangs around IR blogs for a significant length of time,  has already noticed that *some* black women express the following: “Black men didn’t like my dark skin and natural hair ” or  ”I couldn’t find a black man that met my standards so I decided to date white men.” The former suggests the […]

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BB&W Blogger, “Zac”: Al Sharpton Snitched for the Mob?! Please, Sweet Black Baby Jesus Let This Be True.

By BB&W Blogger, “Zac Onbothsides.” Hit him up on Facebook here. Please sweet black baby Jesus let this be true.   It is being reported that the Reverend Al Sharpton, was instrumental in taking down the infamous Genovese crime family by working with the F.B.I. as an informant.  Sure. Why not.   I’m picturing that […]


StarTalk: What’s Your Astrological Power Color?

Since I am celebrating my birthday today and being a spring baby, I’ve decided to celebrate all things spring, except of course, all of nature’s sperm in the air that is causing me all manner of nasal and laryngeal irritations. Spring speaks of all things new, passion, love, longer days and shorter nights. It is […]


WTF?! Human “Barbie” Claims Women are Less Beautiful Because of “Race Mixing”

Have you had a gander at Russian woman who bends reality to look like a plastic doll with bullet boobs? Yes; Valeria Lukyanova wants you to know that there’s less beautiful women in the world because we’re all mixing ourselves up and stuff, and therefore increasing the demand for plastic surgery. Here’s what she said […]

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Urban Decay Wants You To Wear Color This Spring. A LOT of It.

You guys know I love just about everything Urban Decay, but I think their new “Electric” palette may be a contender with their best-selling NAKED palettes–just on the other end of the spectrum. These colors are BOLD and look MAGICAL on dark colored skin. Think Lupita, ya’ll.   Contrary to what you might believe, bold […]


Like Cheerios, Honeymaid Sticks It To the Haters

You gotta love it when good wins out over evil. What’s sad is that many of the people who rail the hardest against interracial, intercultural, interfaith and same-sex unions have no idea how hateful they appear. But we at BB&W firmly believe that love is LOVE, and we support Honeymaid and Cheerios for sticking a […]

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“Would a Rainbeau Accept My Special Needs Child?”

Dylan A recent post on my Facebook community page sparked the question: ”Would a rainbeau accept my special needs child??  Any single woman who loves her special needs (or typical) child will always mentally ask this question of any potential suitor.  My best friend has an autistic son as do I.  As a matter of fact, that is […]


QOTW: Interracial Relationships and the “N-Word”

Got this note about a month ago. Yes; that’s how far backed up I am. Good Evening Christelyn! Two things I love to do is laugh and listen to music. Because I love to laugh, I love going to comedy shows. And although I love music, occasionally I enjoy hip hop music. What I find […]

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Matthew Hussey’s “Unconventional” 9 Steps on How to Get the Guy You Want

Matthew Hussey, relationship coach and best-selling author of the “Get the Guy” recently did a video he says is a can help you get the guy you want in nine steps. Some of the advice is a bit…unconventional, like skipping a shower and showing up in your pajamas if that’s what you feel most comfortable […]

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A Heartfelt Letter from a White Guy, Wondering How He Can Approach Black Women. Have At It, Ladies.

I don’t know if you guys realize how much of an impact this site has, and how many notes I get like this on a weekly basis. Men you thought would never take you seriously, would never love or marry you, would never take you out in public, and all the other LIES being told […]

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Take a Look at This EBONY News Release and Tell Me What’s Wrong.

I got the following news release from the public relations reps over at EBONY magazine. In the May issue of EBONY magazine, the publication partnered with the W.K. Kellogg Foundation (WKKF) to release the State of the Black Family Survey.  In the study, a national sample of 1,005 African-American respondents identified job loss and financial […]