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SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: She’s got Legs.

She's got legs, she knows how to use them She never begs, she knows how to choose them She's holding leg wondering how to feel them Would you get behind them if you could only find them? She's my baby, she's my baby Yeah, it's alright The girl is alright, she's alright … Read More...

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One Writer’s Response to Tracy Renee Jones.…

By Don Rice I'd like to thank Tracy Renee Jones for inspiring me to write this rant. When I first came to this blog, I loved it; it was a safe space to express then, and it still is now. But something seemed to change, and I couldn't quite put my … Read more...

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Kicking 2014 in the Proverbial A**: Obsessions…

Happy New Year Darlings!I've been on a mini hiatus from blogging because well, frankly, I needed a break from communicating.. Now I am back with a vengeance and to kick this new years off right I have put together a Glossi of my obsessions for the … Read more...

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Oneika, our Favorite Traveller, Gets Engaged!…

The holidays are a really popular time for couples to get engaged. Something about the prospect of spending yet another Christmas eve or Hanukkah with extended family but sans your own personal family makes people want to pop the question--or maybe … Read more...

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Atlanta Parking Attendent Writes ‘Jungle…

Fox News Atlanta reported today that an interracial couple, a black woman and a white man, encountered overt bigotry by a parking attendant who wrote "jungle fever" on the ticket to redeem their keys. Now before folks say this might be a hoax like … Read more...

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I Don’t Hate Myself, I Just Hate Ratchetry.…

As you might imagine, I get a lot of people accusing me of hating myself because of the nature of my work. Somehow, telling black women they are beautiful and worthy and have options beyond those who share the same level of melanin means I … Read more...

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Irene and Aaron’s Blissful UK Union…

I happened upon this lovely couple on Pinterest.  Looking into them a little further, I found Irene and Aaron's wedding pics.  They are so lovely and in such a place of phenomenal history that has been around for millennia.  Photographer Mamun … Read more...

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It’s a New Year. Time for ‘Operation…

New Year, New Relationship? Sign Up for InterracialDating.com and Matthew Hussey’s “Get The Guy” Program in Time to Help You Get the Date of Your Dreams by V-Day. It’s New Year’s Day and Day One for operation “Get-Yo-Man!” Thanks to the folks over … Read more...

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Ani DiFranco Cancels Retreat that Was To Be Held On…

I was never a huge Ani DiFranco fan, but I loved (and still do love) her song "32 Flavors." DiFranco, a feminist (some would appendage the word "icon" in front of that "feminist") was set to hold a songwriting retreat at Nottoway Plantation in White … Read more...

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While Gabrielle Union Cries in Her Soup, Eve Celebrates…

Well the internet has been abuzz on the announcement that on the heels of her engagement to Dwanye Wade, we learn that he spawned a child with some random woman while on "a break" from Gabby. But I guess all will be forgiven and she'll move on to … Read more...

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Feel Good Story from Leonard Nimoy to Young Biracial…

Thanks to Deepa Kunapuli over at Upworthy, the Internet was set abuzz by of a feel good story.  Evidently, a marginalized biracial girl wrote in to Mr. Spock for advice.  Yes, this would be the same First Mate to Captain Kirk of the Starship … Read more...

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What Are Your Goals For 2014?…

The new year is almost upon us. It's a time to reflect on what happened in 2013 and figure out what changes we want to make in 2014. For my part, I'm looking for a better job. I LOVE the company I work for and my desire is to remain with this … Read more...

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New in the New Year. Tell us what you want.…

We are opening the floor to you our readers.  What do you want to see on Beyond Black and White in 2014? Brainstorm away. … Read more...

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What is Wrong with the Black Man? (Written by a Black…

Someone posted a quote from this citation on my You Tube channel and could hardly believe it was written by a Nigerian man. I'm reposting it, knowing some folks are going to accuse me of hating black men. That's not the reason I'm going to do it. … Read more...

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Video Rewind…You Tube, the Early Days…

I was taking a look at some of my older videos done back when the blog was new, and I realized that all the newbies haven't had the chance to fully experience the awesomeness of my humor. You're … Read more...

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Monday Punday #18…

Monday-Punday # 18 SirLoin knows that a good pun-ish-meant that Monday-Punday is herfe: Question to a chef: What is a good reason for pounding meat? Answer : Loneliness! According to Cosmopolitan, if you meet a stranger at … Read more...

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QOTW: “Forced to Always Be Tough, How Do I Show…

Ah, the curse of the Strong Black Woman. I got a note from someone who reached out to me because in her first interracial dating experience, she is blown away by the drive this rainbeau seems to have to want to take care of her. It's not a position … Read more...

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LMAO, I’m All For Cutting Out the Sugar…

This came up on my Facebook timeline and I laughed so hard I tooted. Apparently there was a lot of this happening by reviews of Sugar-Free Haribo Gummy Candies. Apparently the sugar substitute the company uses cause loose stools. Like, Hersey's … Read more...

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Black Girls Traveling: Break Some Ice In Iceland…

  Break Some Ice in Iceland As I am always encouraging black women to explore the world outside the United States, I finally get to discuss Iceland, first in a series about Scandinavia. Before you envision a permanent frozen tundra, be … Read more...

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Black Feminist have Bey’s back but do they have…

Nero fiddles while Rome burns. In their their ongoing battle with White Feminist for recognition and influence Black Feminist have Bey's back but do they have yours? Whatever you think of her new album, is it really more important than this … Read more...

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New Study Suggests Black Women Have a Harder Road to…

A recent study from the University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine, published in the International Journal of Obesity, might show proof that black women DO have a harder time losing weight than white women. The skinny: African-American women … Read more...