bruno mars, biracial, musician, halftime show, band, singer, performer, artist, rock music, pompadour, football, Superbowl, stage, filipino, asian, puerto rican, mix, ethnic men, stereotypes,

YAAAEESS! Bruno Mars Is a Multi-racial Dose of Deliciousness!…

Okay, the game was a complete blowout, and it seems as if the Seahawks were the only ones who showed up to play and actual game. The highlight, hands down, was the performance of Bruno Mars. He sounded amazing and looked amazing. The 50’s look and the pompadour was everything. Guess what race Bruno is […]

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Such a Shame; Such a Waste…Philip Seymour Hoffman, Dead at 46…

Do you ever notice that the most brilliant amongst us are often slaves to their own internal torment? I was shocked to hear that Philip Seymour Hoffman died yesterday, apparently by a drug overdose. Not gonna lie, when I first heard, part of me thought about how Hoffman always looked pasty and winded, and thought […]

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Does Al Gore Believe African Women’s Fertility Rates Will Cause…

You’d think so if you listened to conservative media sites. Take a look at this snippet from Human Events: Gore said such efforts to manage African women’s fertility were important in his desire to reduce the growth of human population. Gore complained there will be more Africans than either Chinese or Indians by mid-century and […]

black male privilege, white male privilege, society, power, culture, race, dating, black women, religion, laws, history, comparison,

That Awkward Privilege: The Mixed Power Status of Black Men (reposted)…

Ever wanted to demonstrate the paradox of Black Male [Mixed] Privilege by systematically illustrating how male privilege is fully analogous to White privilege? Perhaps this post will be helpful.

Black men are in the complex position of being quite privileged in one sphere of human activity — romantic relationships — while being quite disempowered in all other spheres of human activity. As ever with any human being, privilege is hardly acknowledged, while disempowerment is appropriately and loudly resented.

Superbowl, cheerios, marketing, media, blended families, commercial, sales, product placement, demographic, marriage, unions, america, sports, sales, earnings, appeal,

How About THIS Version of the Cheerios Super Bowl Commercial?…

Hey all, check out another version of the Cheerios Super Bowl commercial that’s taking America by storm, featuring The Hubster, and my two youngest kiddos. Yep. Swirling comes in a lot of different flavors. Go Sea Hawks!!

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Beyonce (the Album) Review: Why this Church Girl Loves Bey and the…

Did y’all catch that Grammy performance?  Dayum.  I thought she had lost it as she had be gone for a minute, but we should never count King Bey out.  Yes, I call her King Bey not, Queen Bey.  I had left the BeyHive after no real music for 2 years and hearing “Bow Down” before […]

light skin, dark skin, colorism, hatred, self hatred, complexion, black men, black women, dating, relationships, privilege, Latinos,

Your Blues Ain’t Like Mine: The Lighter Side of the Colorism…

The life of a light skinned Black female can be an amazingly confusing place. The fact of the matter is that I didn’t necessarily understand my complexion to be something so, er, complex. My earliest memory of reference to skin tone was made by my Grandma Hill when she explained the three major races to […]

Jordan Harbinger, Christelyn Karazin, race, demographic, OOW, marriage, partnering, tolerance, premier, youtube, dating, relationships, singles, swirling, television, day time, series, show, media, marketing, Hollywood, California, black women, non black men, biracial, announcement, culture,

My Big Announcement……

I’ve been hinting about this for a while, and I guess I could tell you, but it’s probably better to just show you…   So what is it? About the Series The series begins with our “Swirling” Experts, Christelyn Karazin and Jordan Harbinger, interviewing single clients who are looking to expand their dating options in […]

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Cheerios Does it Again, Dropping Major Dough for Super Bowl Ad…

Poking a dollar-wrapped finger into the eye of haters across America, Cheerios will  bring back the interracial family that brought so much controversy. As we’ve mentioned, advertisers are hip to the FACT that more and more families in America look like us, or have relatives, friends and co-workers who do. In fact, General Mills believes […]

Chris and Alexander "Xand" van Tulleken, twins, doctors, diet, eating, health, wellness, black women, high protein, low fat, comparison, tested, youtube video, doctors, cute, experiment, video, myth, industry, sugar, white bread, starch, rice, carbs, carbohydrates, nuts, veggies, lean meats, greens, calories, restriction, Atkins,

Crazy Diets: Two Hot Twin Doctors Put the “Low Fat” and…

Chris and Alexander “Xand” van Tulleken, twins who also happen to be doctors, recently embarked on an experiment to see which diets were worse–the low/no fat diet versus the high protein/low/no carbs diet. Chris did low fat, Xand did high protein. They followed a very strict regimen for what foods they ate with no variance. […]

kumquat, fruit, smoothie, recipe, nutrition, cooking, healthy, fruit, vodka, vitamins, garden,

Kumquats! I Can’t Believe I Was Sleeping On Them……

Do you know what a kumquat is? It’s the color of an orange, and it sort of taste like an orange peel. Not the most appetizing by itself, but mix it in a vodka tonic (love you, Daddy Karazin) or a smoothie and wowzers…so delicious and nutritious. I grow these in my front yard and […]

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Swiffer Commercial Is Just the Beginning. Ad Guys Know EXACTLY…

This video holds the record for appearing in my inbox. I must have gotten 20. Woot! This is awesome, but pretty soon it’ll be as normal an image as…well…vanilla and chocolate ice cream. Advertisers aren’t doing this out of some social advocacy. This is where the world is going, folks. Now go mop your floors.

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Stuff I Like: Portrait-Ready, “Stay All Day” Foundation by…

As I age, my skin begins to act a little funny. The dry spots are dryer and the oily spots are still oily. So when you wear foundation with a T-Zone on overdrive, you want your skin to look “dewy” without being the poster child for Dawn dish detergent. Last week at IMATS I met […]

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Monday-Punday #22…

Monday-Punday #22   Well, it’s THAT time again, and SirLoin can serve up another set of groaners. Look at it this way … it keeps your vocal cords alive and active …   At 4pm, White Pawn Alice made it to the 8th rank. She was crowned as a White Queen, captured the Red Queen […]

dating, Youtube, marriage, swirling, true story, Willie Pete, commenters, women haters, Black women, marriage, light skin, dark skin, complexion, worth, value, options, blogging, hatred, OOW, single mother, abandonment, White men, other men,

My True Confession: I Advocate Swirling Because I Was the Black…

A very strange and angry black man called Sergeant Willie Pete is enraged by me. He’s enraged because he took a comment I said in a You Tube video in which I was very honest and said that I really didn’t embrace my beauty until it was validated from external sources–yes; I didn’t think I […]

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Is There Any Group That Blames the Victims Worse?!…

So I’m reading about this miscreant who threw a bowling ball at a woman’s HEAD for not accepting his offer to buy her a drink, and the author over at Madame (makes) No-sense said, “This is the reason I answer to street harassment no matter how annoying or inappropriate it is.” Yes, that’s the answer. […]

Michael Johnson, gay man, videotape, college, investigation, online dating, condom, safe sex, get tested, risk, awareness, Craig Lamar Davis, HIV, conviction, sex, married, minister, predator, jail, prison,

One Man Found Guilty of Not Disclosing HIV Status, Another Man Was…

Consider this post a friendly public service announcement about the importance of safe sex. It’s not just high schoolers who need this message. Craig Lamar Davis, 43, was just convicted of knowingly exposing one woman to HIV. He faces a second trial in a different county–Fulton County, GA–for intentionally exposing another woman to the HIV […]

Dencia, pop star, Nigerian, black woman, skin care, bleaching cream, blonde, black woman, white woman, CLUTCH, media, complexion, self hatred,

“Clutch/The Frisky” Nails It With Their Critique of…

I’ve been annoyed with Clutch’s editorial lineup over the past year, what with all their, “EVERYBODY’S RACIST!!!” posts, because I remember a time when the content was much more rounded. The good news is, it looks like they’re going back to that somewhat. They still have the “EVERYBODY’S RACIST!!!” posts, just not as much. So […]

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Maxi Me Gets Her Drive On!…

Yes, that’s an official driver’s license she’s holding. …And I’m trying to wrap my head around the baby in the back in a car seat and the BIG baby I see before my eyes. Maxi has been seriously motivated to drive and get her license as soon as she turned 16. She did that last […]

dating, swirling, equals, standards, Black women, Black men, poor choices, leaving, relationshps, romance, abuse, options,

Toni: Desirable educated black women who don’t exercise their…

I find it absolutely hilarious that we get black woman after black woman writing all these open letters and blog posts about how they only want a black man. Yet here we are: Up to our eyeballs in black men who can’t seem to get it through their heads that this is a pro-interracial relationship […]