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Day Three of the Vice 3 Palette: “Get Frosty”…

I hear that our East Coast folks got their first snow today. Just in time for my “frosty” look using Urban Decay’s best-ever Vice 3 palette. This look is so impactful, yet soft and feminine and guaranteed to turn heads at any holiday party.   I’ve told you before that this palette is so versatile, […]

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SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: Global Beat Latin America…

For this week’s worship of beauty we are going global.  First stop, Latin America.  In this post we feature Afro Latina models and actresses. Brazilian Model Emanuela de Paula           Carmelita Mendes         Gina Torres Lauren Velez Zoe Saldana Ya Ya da Costa   Stacy Dash Syesha Mercado […]

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Healthy and Filling Pre-Holiday Smoothie…

It’s Thanksgiving eve and the mass execution of turkeys is done, and the carcass safely nestled in your refrigerator. But before you gorge yourself, grab a can of pumpkin puree–the one you’ve stocked up on so you can make dessert–a create a healthy and filling smoothie. Healthy Pre-Holiday Pumpkin Green Smoothie from Christelyn Karazin on […]

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QOTW: Are You the Backup Booty?…

Got this question from a fan… Hi this is probably the first time I’ve reached out to anyone about the issue i have. I’m a 32 yr old white male and I for the first time dated a dark skinned black woman. I fell madly in love with her. I would do anything for her. […]

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Day Two of the Vice 3 Palette: “New Mexico Sunset”…

When I was a kid, we made a lot of road trips to Texas by way of Arizona to New Mexico. By far, it’s some of the most beautiful country I’ve ever seen. You haven’t lived until you’ve seen the purple, reds and pinks of a New Mexico sunset against the gorgeous mountain range.   […]

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#Ferguson…

Because of the sensitive nature of this story, we’ve decided to hold the conversation over at the forum. You can read and contribute to the conversation here. This is an important conversation to have, and it should be done in a safe and secure environment.

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Is Gabriel Aubrey Trying to ‘White Wash’ Nahla?…

So Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubrey are back in court, and this time it’s over Halle’s outrage that Nahla’s father seems to be chemically straightening and highlighting her hair in an attempt to look a fraction less than 1/4 black. This from TMZ: Halle Berry just took Gabriel Aubry to court … claiming he’s trying to make their […]

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Vetting a Spiritual Community…

Many people sense that there is something greater at work in the universe; that humans on Earth are not the sum game of life. Religion often provides helpful answers and guidance to these larger than life questions. Several American black women, myself included, identify with some form of Christianity and find engagement with other Christians […]

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Day One of the Vice 3 Palette: Get the Look, “Pinky…

I’m mad it took till my 40’s to understand eye makeup. No use crying over smudged eye shadow, though. Better late than never. I recently picked up Urban Decay’s latest, Vice 3 palette, and I think this might be the best one yet. Unlike last year’s Vice 2 (silver/white undertones), the undertones are gold which […]

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Propaganda Ramping Up On Black Women Dating and Marrying Interracially…

I’ve watched with some amusement and more than a little bit of incredulity the series of lies and propaganda against black women dating and marrying interracially. In 2010, the argument was, “White men don’t want black women. They only go for white-looking black women.” Simultaneously, I was belittled by black men who said the only […]

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“Bye Felicia,” a Modern-Day Mammy Show Coming Soon on VH1…

How many ways can reality television exploit black women while said black women go willingly off the cliff like lemmings? Better question–when are we actually going to get pissed off enough to vote with our pocket books to get this mess off the air? Because I tell you what, executives are laughing all the way […]

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This Friday! Let’s Talk Social Consequences of Interracial…

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Matthew’s Weight Loss Journey: “I Was Living a…

My name is Matthew – and I’m regular member of the Beyond Black and White Community on Facebook, the Beyond Black and White Google Plus Hangout Group, the Beyond Black and White Twitter presence, and now the Beyond Black and White Forums.   I have a story to tell you about my personal weight loss journey. […]

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Creamy, Smooth, Holiday-Photo-Ready Skin and Make Up!…

Two things you can count on during the holidays are food and photos. You’ll want to make sure you look your best in all those photos during the parties you attend, and I have a product recommendation for those of you who need minimal coverage to just don’t like the cake-y feel of liquid foundation. […]

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Hey Naturals, Have You Heard of Mop Top?…

Likes and recommendations: Gentle Shampoo and Gentle Conditioner: great smell, cleans and conditions without hair feeling stripped Products to avoid: Leave-in conditioner, curly custard (leaves hair feeling dry and hard; custard flakes Website has ingredients and prices.

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Leona’s Love Quest: Taking the Fear out of Relationship Failures…

As some of you have already noticed, my perspective on life and relationships has changed since I went on the Matthew Hussey Retreat. However, taking more risks and pushing myself out of my comfort zone has not been easy. I can even foresee the potential for things to get even worse. I always tend to […]

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Obesity Wins Again. My Half-Sister Is Dying.…

People often wonder why I cover the minefield that is black women and obesity. It stems from experience, watching my mother and half-sister eat, and eat, and eat themselves literally to the brink of death. I’ve lived my life modeling for myself and others the exact opposite of what I witnessed, because I saw how […]

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Thoughts on Beyond the Lights…

I recently saw Beyond the Lights, drawn in by a female centered story as well as the actors playing the lead characters, Gugu Mbatha-Raw (Noni Jean) and Nate Parker (Caz). I loved Gugu in Belle earlier this year and developed an appreciation for Nate Parker in the Great Debaters a few years ago. The film […]

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Black Female-Centered Media is Coming Around to Our Side, but is It…

Before the New York Post wrote about Jacque Reid’s reversal of her decision to participate in my coaching, I was often the running joke of online media in the so-called “black space.” First they mocked me. Then they ignored me. But then, the New York Post comes along and validates and reports a position I […]

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Black Female Aggressiveness at Epic Levels. Why?…

A subway brawl between a Dominican man and a black woman has gone viral leading to four arrests. Danay Howard was subjected  to a very hard slap from Jorge Pena after she ridiculed and insulted him for several minutes before hitting him in the head with her high heeled shoes. It has been dubbed “the slap […]