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Study Says Unexpected Cosmetic Really Does Make Women Seem More…

You fluff your ‘fro, powder your nose, and put on that last layer of lip gloss before you give yourself a final once over. Add the earrings, shoes and matching purse. There’s only one thing left to do, which surprisingly, studies show actually does make you seem more attractive. Perfume. Yes. Perfume. From the Daily […]

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Cucumber Season Means Home Made Pickles!…

I like cucumbers as much as the next person, but too much of anything is just…to much. I’m very, VERY new to the world of canning and preserves, and I’m a little paranoid about the whole sealing process. Don’t want to accidentally kill anyone by creating a virtual petri dish of flesh-eating bacteria. That’s why […]

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Congrats, David and Iman, for 22 Years of Wedded Bliss!…

I remember when it was announced that David Bowie and Iman were a thing, and that that grew into a marriage. It was the early 90’s, and interracial marriage between black women and white men was virtually unheard of. I consider them one of the pioneers of the movement that encourages black women to find […]

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Essence Excludes Gabrielle Union’s Interracial Romantic Interest…

I have to admit, I never saw Think Like a Man. And most likely, I won’t be spending my change to see Think Like a Man Too. But let’s for the sake of argument say I might have given it a chance because I hear it’s pretty funny and there’s a nice depiction of an […]

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Low Carb, Hight Nutrition: Roasted Carrot and Leek Soup with Feta and…

My beauty garden is going strong and the carrots and leeks I’ve been growing are ready to harvest. I’ve been trying to think of creative recipes using carrots besides just side dishes, and that’s how I happened upon an idea for roasted carrots and leek soup. As you know, carrots are the ultimate “beauty food,” […]

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Interracial Couple Speaks Candidly About Public Onlookers…

It’s funny. I never really know who all follows me on my You Tube channel…apparently there’s quite a lot…and when I get a free moment I’ll check out the pages of the people who follow me. I was glad I did when I saw Shelly and Michael. They get really candid about how the public […]

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Oakland Paul: Two Women Badly Beaten, Only One Gets National…

I have nothing new to say. Just sharing my observation of an obvious truth.  A truth I am just now learning to notice. It is the painful truth of disparity, inequality and indifference. On national news, much ado is made of a beautiful girl beaten “nearly” to death by her boyfriend. Her beguiling smile, blonde […]

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Are You Vulnerable to Job Discrimination?…

By Tammy Ghalden From all of the research I have read, my answer to the above question would be “yes.” However, there might be some explanations I will get to later on in this article. I have argued with several people online that Affirmative Action has had a minimal, negative effect on white males and […]

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Oh. My. Gawd. Lupita N’Yongo and Her Bikini Body. Tips to Get…

Here’s a little inspiration we could all use at the summer months come upon us. Lupita N’Yongo has one of the most beautiful bodies I have ever seen. Round bottom, flat abs, lots of muscle tone. Definitively feminine, undoubtedly fit. Check out these photos from Pop Sugar.       If you’re lusting after Lupita’s […]

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Just As Good as Hair Vitamins: Why You Should Be (Growing) and Eating…

I planted cabbage for the first time in the late fall, unsure what those little dark-brown seeds would actually amount to anything. I usually skip cabbage in the grocery store, and I was thinking that maybe if I grew it at home I’d be more likely to eat it. That turned out to be kinda […]

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Have You Checked Out Sienna Mynx’s Top-Rated Book, “Before…

Over the next few months you’ll notice that BB&W will become a central hub for reviews, profiles, and giveaways of interracial fiction featuring black women as the heroines and non-black men as the love interest. If you’re an author, contact me offline at christelyn@beyondblackwhite.com so your book can also be considered. This week’s giveaway is Sienna […]

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Does Your Face Look Good Naked? Three Natural Products that Should Be…

Just finished an all-natural facial. This photo is untouched and unedited. As you can see, I’m kinda sleepy. This is right before my bedtime. That’s my skin after an all-natural beauty routine that helps keep my skin bright, evenly toned, and appear almost pore less. At almost 41, I’m committed to looking my best self […]

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Coming Down from the Mount: Lay Off the Mods!…

I have sat by too long observing the anti-moderator sentiments, snide comments and outright contempt for the folks who help keep this site clean and free of trolls. And I have one thing to say: I will not stand for it. It’s because of them that Beyond Black & White can continue to exist without […]

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Watch a Bunch of Black Women Cheering as Their Pastor Shouts,…

My inbox has been peppered with messages about a sermon rendered by Pastor Jamal Bryant called “I’m My Enemies Worst Nightmare.” (yes, they wrote enemies, not enemy’s)  Now before I go on, take a look at the clip. I contend that Pastor Jamal is not his enemy’s worst nightmare. I think he’s playing right into their […]

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Biker Gang Rolls In to Protect Maya Angelou’s Funeral from Being…

Generally I’m a little scared of biker gangs. It’s rare that I hear news about them and say, “Woohoo, rock on, you leathery scary people!” So news that a biker gang named 2 million Bikers was planning on rolling in to protect Maya Angelou’s remains from the unapologetic trolls known to trumpet, “GOD HATES FAGS!!” […]

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12 Proven Benefits for Eating an Apple a Day……

The U.S. Apple Association just provided this useful reminder of how amazing apples are to your health. Remember, opt for organic apples because of the high pesticide content found in non-organic apples. As an apple grower myself, it’s a challenge growing organic, but it’s by far the best for you–especially if you eat the skin, […]

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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 14 – The Journey Continues…

  Yes, silly old EarthJeff is back.  Life is not about the destination, it is about the journey.  While I hate quoting Miley Cyrus… it is about the Climb. So I started dating again a bit ago, and I had a few first dates.  Look, if it isn’t a fit, better to know right away […]

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QOTW: White Woman Asks, “How Can I Get My Family to Accept My…

While this question is from a white woman dating a black man, the advice is universal for all interracial combinations. We dedicate an entire chapter on this subject in my book, Swirling.

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#Trending: Black + White = Art Deco Chic…

    It is rare that two colors so opposite go so well with each other. Unlike any combination in the color spectrum, black and white –no pun intended– are two very compatible colors, they were indeed made for each other.   If you love this chic combination that became world famous during the Roaring Twenties, […]

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Shore to shore: is dating for Black women across the Atlantic really…

By:  Carla Ford Have you ever considered if you lived in the UK, would men of others races be more openly receptive in showing their attraction towards Black women? The eccentric, open-minded and tolerant reputation of the British is, in general, accurate. However, I often read American blogs that advise Black women to go to […]