Hi, I am writing to you because I need some advice. I admire you and look up to you as a role model; like my mother. My husband who is white and I (black) have been married for 5 years and he takes care of me and my 2 kids (from previous black relationship). WeRead More…
We’ve talked a lot about preferences vs. IR via serendipity. Some of us have always dated interracially and have a certain “type” that does it for us. Then there’s the majority of us, who took a chance to love in a different way and discovered it was amazing. We were opened up to new […]
The Question: I’m struggling in how to cope in a marriage where I hear racial prejudice and insults. My husband is white, I am African American. He listens to Rush Limbaugh religiously, and makes insulting comments in the form of “jokes.” He is a physician, and I quit my job to be his housewife. I […]
In case you haven’t noticed the new advertisement on the upper right hand corner of the blog, I thought it was befitting fro me to FINALLY tell you what I’ve been up to. At 42–which is TWICE the legal age limit for alcohol–I get carded regularly every time I want to be a bottle of […]
Got this interesting question from someone on our fan page: Hey everyone, I asked this in another group and didn’t really get much feedback; so I hope I get more interest from a more diverse page. My name is Simon. I have, for nearly 5 years of my life, been involved with the occult. I […]
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There’s no question that the BEST time to buy cosmetics is between November and January. Why? Because the gift sets offered have pretty significant discounts and group value. But not all sets are created equal. Too Faced has a holiday packet, and as usual, the colors have a white/silvery cast that can look ashen […]
Geezus lawd this man is fine. And!!! He loves him some black women. And he’s not shy about saying it. Not so much for IR, because he’s kind of like those kind of “keep hope alive” black dudes who really has a hard time seeing any of us crossing color lines…but he does it in […]
So Canada just got really lucky….at least from an aesthetics standpoint, and the recent election of the big ball of hotness that is Justin Trudeau may be just the push I need to get up north to visit the place that I lovingly call, “America Junior.” Okay so ‘who dis?’ He’s the second youngest prime […]
Sooooo, what ya all cooking this year?
At long last I have put the final pieces of my plan in place. After much plotting, planning, scheming, creating diversions in order to elude counter-intelligence and generally behaving like Walter White in his attempt to keep his dirty deeds and sordid secrets hidden, I am ready to make the attempt to ditch this bauble […]
For those of you who are along for the ride with the squat challenge, here’s my update. I’m averaging over 100 squats about every other day and that seems to be the sweet spot for me. I use 7-pound weights with my reps as well. I’ve also gotten back to waist training again, and I […]
When it comes to buying gifts for the special man in their lives, women don’t always get it right. Often, they’ll play it safe with a nice tie or good pair of socks as the tried and tested items that they believe men like. If you really want to give a memorable gift however, […]
Despite Halle’s ongoing relationship issues, one thing can not be disputed: this woman looks good! And at nearly 50, she’s aging quite well. In her first interview since her latest divorce announcement, Halle says she’s not going to have a party and refuses to be defined by the number “50.” Instead, she says she’s going […]
Fall and winter can be so hard on the hair. Drying winds and frigid cold make styling for those upcoming special holiday celebrations a task. Here’s my favorites this season: OKAY Pure Naturals Black Jamaican Castor Oil With Lavender ($12.00): I used this product for the style above. Castor oil has an interesting effect on […]
In a publication authored by the Council of Contemporary Families, called, Why Interracial Marriage Is Good for Black Women – and the Best Hope for Restoring Marriage in the Black Community, is a lot of stuff we already knew, but kind of surprising that so many outside the community seem to know it but stay […]
Clarsionic, the vibrating hand-held facial cleanser has dominated the marketplace for years, and now you can find them in every major makeup store and in spas throughout the world. No doubt it’s superior to a face cloth and vigorous manual hand motions. I reviewed it several times, and I own one. So when the folks at […]
We’ve come leaps and bounds ahead when it comes to the country’s acceptance of interracial relationships. You have your boo, he has you. You’re in love. When there’s four walls, you feel absolute freedom to love the hell out of them. In public, you clam up, walk three paces ahead and pretend you’re not together. […]
Some of you were really, really upset that I didn’t take Halle’s side in her latest split. My main aim was for it to be a teachable moment. Basically, if you have a string of failed relationships, the common denominator is you, regardless of the race, ethnicity, fame or fortune of the man or woman […]
All I can say is, did they grow up in the same house???! He’s married, a present father, and appears to be a VERY positive person. God bless him and Angel. Let’s celebrate those who stick their necks out despite the fire-breathing black women haters running like zombies to eat their brains.
CNN has reported that the ongoing conflict in Sudan based NOT on race, but ethnicity continues despite previous attempts to cease fire. Sadists are forcing mostly civilians to drink human blood and burnt carcasses. Rape is as common as a handshake. Children continue to be forced into fighting the military conflict. If there is such […]