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Late Night Man Candy Monday: Welcome to Bollywood!!…

Hollywood is overrated, so I hear, it’s not like I’ve been there but what I do know is that there is a more festive and exciting place than L.A. could ever imagine. Let’s take a trip, ladies, across the pond and several hours away there lies a place called Bollywood, and here you can find […]

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IRR Romance: Heart to Heart by Ife Oshun…

   Coming November 3 Heart To Heart by Ife Oshun   Paranormal romance Heart To Heart is Book Two in the Angelica Brown series, and the sequel to YA fantasy BLOOD TO BLOOD, the recipient of 4 and-a-half-star reviews from the likes of the San Francisco Book Review, Portland Book Review, and more. Will Angel learn […]

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Leona’s Love Quest:  The ABC’s of Finding Love …

By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was still at the resort sipping champagne and watching the sun set over the ocean. (P.S. – If you decide to go, make sure to tell them Leona’s […]

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“Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying…

Listen white guys who love us… I know you think you’re being super nice when you say you just love how “strong” black women are, but…no. You might not be aware of the social dynamics in the black community, but  black women are forced to be “strong and stoic” out of pure necessity. There is […]

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AAWG: Tell a white guy…

Deviant dude that I am I’m gonna deviate from Ask A White Guy and delve into Tell A White Guy. I’m mainly talking to the men who choose to read rather than post here. I’m talkin to you guys today, cuz I know you’re there taking this all in.  So here’s a little something especially […]

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IRR Book Review: Tempted by Samara King…

Reviewed by Lauren Jimerson   (Reader Advisory: This book contains scenes of voyeurism and a brief reference to F/F intimacy.) Tempted by Samara King is the second book in the Scarlet Ties series. It is a story of love, lust and vampires who are trying very hard to resist each other. Despite it’s warning of graphic sexual […]

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Fashion and Beauty Roundup: MAC’s New Stuff, Halle Doing…

‘Round these parts we LOVE being girls, don’t we, ladies? Here’s some news you can use… Ooo La La!! Halle Berry has collaborated with French lingerie brand Scandale Paris to launch it in select Target stores and online on October 27. The lingerie label was initially established in 1932, and this collection is designed to celebrate the […]

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From Uganda to Serbia, Rose Bugarčić’s Incredible Journey…

From Uganda to Serbia, Rose Bugarčić’s Incredible Journey   Decision on employment presented by the Minister Ivica Dacic (Photo A. Vasiljevic)   Rose Bugarčić I am happy with the title of “SwirlQueen” bequeathed to me by BB&W founder Mrs. Christelyn Karazin.  It suits me well.  However these days I feel more like a “Swirl Huntress”.  […]

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Fall in the Garden…Time for Greens, Greens, and More Greens…

One of the benefits of living in a climate that never freezes and stays below 90 (sometimes well below) most of the year is that I have a really, really long growing season. My garden buddies on the East Coast have pretty much packed it in until Spring 2015, and I’m still getting tomatoes, eggplant, […]

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OMG…Matthew Hussey Gives the Most BRILLIANT Advice on How to Get…

He just keeps nailing it over and over. Matthew Hussey gives you REAL techniques in which you can implement to get immediate results. How many of you have written me about how non-black men stare buy won’t make a move? You see them staring at you–you know they are checking you out with all your […]

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Could What Ralph Richard Banks Said in His Book Be True Regarding How…

If you haven’t yet read Is Marriage for White People, by professor Ralph Richard Banks, you might want to pick it up. He gives a cogent argument for why black women should date out, and how doing so might actually help them find quality black husbands by creating a demand where there was a surplus. […]

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Daniele Watts Faced with Lewd Conduct Charges…

According to TMZ… “Django Unchained” actress Daniele Watts may be convincing in the movies, but not in real life because she’s just been charged with lewd conduct for allegedly having sex in her car outside CBS Studios. Watts went on a campaign against the LAPD … accusing cops of racism for cuffing her after people complained they were banging […]

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Grain-Free, Fall Recipes by the Author of “Wheat Belly!”…

You guys know I’m big on eliminating wheat, processed sugar, and just about anything white from my diet, which I’m convinced has me looking and feeling decades younger than I really am. While not specifically paleo, the principles of Dr. William Davis’ Wheat Belly follows many of the same principles. I was thrilled when his […]

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: AfroPunk…

I would like to thank mlee for bring this to my attention.  I have to admit that as a seventy something I had never heard of AfroPunkers but the more I dug into this subgroup the more I liked what I saw. The journey began here  www,afropunk.com and of course continued on by searching online […]

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Listen Ladies! If You’re Going to Complain About How…

I wasn’t going to write about it. I wasn’t. I saw the article on the Huffington Post  like everyone else; about the woman who bemoaned out loud to mainstream America what many of us have picked up on for quite some time–there’s more than a few black men out there that aren’t too fond of […]

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Your Favorite Stars without Make Up…Don’t Be Afraid to…

As part of our new “Become Your Best You” series (this will be a full-blown, year-long challenge starting in 2015) I thought it was important to circle back to the whole, makeup vs. no makeup thing. I wasn’t one of them, but I’ve heard how some black women (especially those of a darker hue) have […]

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Despite “Scandal” and HTGAWM, We’re Still Fighting…

It’s 11 days until Halloween, so invariably there’s a few horror flicks playing at the theaters. Maxi Me knows I love horrors, so she suggested she and I go see “Annabelle,” a story about an ugly-ass doll possessed by a crazy woman.   At first I just thought this was going to one of those […]

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Man Candy Monday: A Well Dressed Man…

After a short hiatus I’m back with treats that aren’t necessarily for Halloween but you may want to bring a large pumpkin with you, nonetheless. Men are amazing naked and in the bed but there is pleasure to be found in those who are dressed as well. This week’s Man Candy Monday is dedicated to […]

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On Vetting: How Men Run Game By Telling the Truth!…

So why do they do this? Basically to have guilt-free sex, says my buddy, Jordan Harbinger, co-founder of The Art of Charm. “Men make up their minds pretty quickly about what kind of relationship he wants in a girl. Guys do it subconsciously. We say, this girl is kind of hot and kinda slutty, but […]

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AAWG: SavageTango tells it. Why I Swirl.…

By SavageTango msdsarah asks: ” I would like to know what started you on your journey to date black women and what you like about black women?” Once upon a time a white guy woke up one morning, got out of bed, looked in the mirror and said, “I’m gonna start dating Black Women today.” […]