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ANNOUNCEMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wanna test out the new Forum?…

We are still in the process but now is the time to test this baby out before we fully populate the forum with content. Sign in and register here: http://beyondblackwhiteforums.com/ You helped build  it so test drive it and tell us what you think. Again thanks for all of your support.

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Buy It! Stream It! “My Last Day Without You” on DVD and…

Folks round these parts are familiar with the film, My Last Day Without You, written by my friend, Chris Silber (boyfriend of the fabulous Misee Harris). The film is loosely based on Silber’s experience meeting his late wife–whom he met and got engaged to in the span of a week. DVD release is Nov. 18th, […]

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I’m Beginning to Think that Many Black Folks are Contented in…

I’m reeling because I just ended a relationship with a person whom I have respected for years, and whom I thought was an ally on behalf of No Wedding No Womb. Although I have ALWAYS taken the position that the out-of-wedlock epidemic in the black community is a 50/50 situation, this person accused me of […]

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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States 2. Gems from the Thread…

There is so much great information that is being been shared by the readers in the comment section of Dani’s article SHARE: Dating Outside of the States that we just had to start a separate one just to feature them all. Thanks to all who are participating is this discussion. I will be updating this […]

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IRR Romance: Loving You by Jan Irving…

  Futuristic Interracial Romance I saw a poster for a martial arts school with this stunning man on it and fantasized about the kind of woman he might end up with. Then my heroine Gwen popped into my mind. Gwen is a prim, no-nonsense cruise director on an interstellar cruise ship. She’s basically like your […]

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Weekend Read: Excerpt from “Child Protection: A Novel Of…

  Title (tentative) “Child Protection: A Novel Of Deception” I actually started writing this book years ago, but lost what I’d written when my computer crashed.  When I lost my job due to disability a few years ago, I decided that, since I couldn’t stay as active physically as I’d been, I had to keep […]

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SHARE: Dating Outside of the States…

Recently, some of our readers shared some very juicy gems about their interactions and dating experiences while traveling abroad. Most important to note was how these experiences transformed them, from feeling invisible, ignored and constrained here in America by various groups of men, into the powerful realization that there ARE men out there who value, […]

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It Should Be a SIN for Women Like This to be Dateless!!…

I am beyond disgusted at how quality, high-value black women are left withering on the vine. I just got this letter today: I’ve just stumbled upon your YouTube page and have recently visited your website and I’m so glad to have found you. I have some questions as to why I don’t seem to get […]

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Deion Sanders Acknowledges the Reality of “Damaged Beyond…

We get a lot of criticism about our use of the term, “DBR,” a psychology/psychiatric term that was popularized by blogger, Evia Moore. It’s often used in reference to individuals who are so far gone in self destructive behaviors, or behaviors that are destructive to others that no amount of love, patience, nurturing, praying, and […]

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On Vetting: Dump Toxic People Who Prefer You to Sustain Unhealthy…

I ran across a news story about a woman who lost 150 pounds of extra weight who had to also end an engagement with a man who would rather see her morbidly obese for his own fetishizing and pleasure than to keep the weight so she could save her life. Eve Parker told the Huffington […]

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Is Pumpkin Pie for White People?…

I managed to wrangle a few pumpkins out of my raised beds this year…but just barely. Pumpkin, melons, cucumbers and squash are susceptible to a fungus called powdery mildew, which if gone unchecked, will literally choke the life out of your plants. Powdery mildew was the absolute bane of my gardening existence. But like I […]

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Body Art…

You think I am talking about ink.  Nope.  No tattoos here. Plenty of paint however. Since ancient times man has been adorning the human body in various way.  This of course includes the addition of pigments to enhance an admittedly already lovely canvas. So sit back and enjoy this week’s offering of painted ladies and […]

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Get X-Mas Money! Enter Our First BB&W “Happy Couple”…

We’re on a mission to rebuild all the “Happy Couple” photos and stories we collected on our original Beyond Black & White fan page! These stories are essential…they’re encouraging, enlightening, uplifting and empowering to our community. We suffered a terrible loss when the trolls were successful in shutting us down. We’ll be back and bigger […]

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Neil’s Story: The Overseas Wedding that (Almost) Never Happened…

Hello Christelyn , this is my journey to swirling. My name is Neil and for as long as I can remember I’ve always liked black women , growing up in northern England was good but it lacked one thing Black Women lol. There was never a moment that flicked the switch so to speak I […]

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My Strong Is Not Your Strong, My Swirl Is Not Your Swirl: On White…

I would like to reiterate a few things before I get started. They are things that are obvious to full-time participants in this lovely community, but for those who are here for their own agendas, they are not so obvious. So let me lay them out: 1.) This is a BLACK WOMAN-CENTRIC community, and the […]

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Late Night Man Candy Monday: Welcome to Bollywood!!…

Hollywood is overrated, so I hear, it’s not like I’ve been there but what I do know is that there is a more festive and exciting place than L.A. could ever imagine. Let’s take a trip, ladies, across the pond and several hours away there lies a place called Bollywood, and here you can find […]

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IRR Romance: Heart to Heart by Ife Oshun…

   Coming November 3 Heart To Heart by Ife Oshun   Paranormal romance Heart To Heart is Book Two in the Angelica Brown series, and the sequel to YA fantasy BLOOD TO BLOOD, the recipient of 4 and-a-half-star reviews from the likes of the San Francisco Book Review, Portland Book Review, and more. Will Angel learn […]

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Leona’s Love Quest:  The ABC’s of Finding Love …

By the time you read this it will be just about two months since I returned from Matthew Hussey’s High Value Woman Lifestyle Retreat. I wish I was still at the resort sipping champagne and watching the sun set over the ocean. (P.S. – If you decide to go, make sure to tell them Leona’s […]

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“Dear White Guys Who Like Black Women, Please Stop Saying…

Listen white guys who love us… I know you think you’re being super nice when you say you just love how “strong” black women are, but…no. You might not be aware of the social dynamics in the black community, but  black women are forced to be “strong and stoic” out of pure necessity. There is […]

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AAWG: Tell a white guy…

Deviant dude that I am I’m gonna deviate from Ask A White Guy and delve into Tell A White Guy. I’m mainly talking to the men who choose to read rather than post here. I’m talkin to you guys today, cuz I know you’re there taking this all in.  So here’s a little something especially […]