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AAWG: Lady J’s Dating Profile Pic Do’s & Don’ts…

by SavageTango I’m laying here on the bed, looking up at the ceiling, and I can’t move. Not after what some chick named Lady J just put me through. My body is beaten. My back is battered. My biceps are bruised. Physically, I am a broken man. But mentally? Well, that’s a whole different story, […]

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Conservative White Men Married to Black Women Sound Off on Jesse…

People should really do their homework when they come for this community, because I find that you folks are truly galvanized to protect what’s yours!! After the disaster of an interview with the “Reverend” Jesse Peterson and his screeching, bigoted caller, you all wrote in to ask the host and producers some HARD questions. So many […]

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Throwing Signs: Letting Him Know You’re Open and Interested…

Stalemates suck, don’t they? For every guy who’s asking, “How can I tell if the woman I’m interested in is open to dating non-black men?” there seems to be many black women who are scratching their heads, wondering: “Why do guys stare at me but never approach?” “Wait. Is he flirting with me? Nah. He’s […]

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A Nigerian in Paris – Torn between 2 Terrors  …

Written by: Zara Chiron, check out her website here. I guess this is what I was getting at when I defined what the term ‘Afropolitan’ meant to me. West-African born with my life’s years spent across 3 different continents. I feel connected to everything, without ever truly feeling like I belong anywhere; a multi-cultural person somehow […]

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Is Your Partner Addicted?…

It’s 2015, and time to look introspectively. Relationships are rarely easy; in fact, they’re usually pretty complex. Even when each member is ready, willing and emotionally able to put forth their best effort, issues pop up and things get complicated. And if you add mental illness, addiction, codependence and other psychological disorders to the mix, […]

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Overcoming Ambivalence to Make Room for the Love You Want…

Does anyone else struggle with what to say when people ask the dumb, “Why is a pretty girl like you still single?” question? I usually have an arsenal of flippant answers ready to fire off, depending on how feisty I feel in that moment: “I’ve been kind of busy traveling the world. It’s hard to […]

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WTF? Worst and Most Racist Interview Ever!!…

Yesterday I was invited to do an interview for some wacky, right-wing, conservative sock puppet for Sean Hannity named Jesse Peterson. Worst. Interview. Ever. See why.   You can listen to the whole interview here: If you would like to contact this “sage of wisdom” and ask him why he doesn’t think marriage to my […]

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Vintage Never Gets Old…Shabby Apple Pinup Look…

It’s been a while since I sang the praises of Shabby Apple, a collection of vintage dresses that puts the sexy in classy. I love the look of the 1940s, and think black women wore the heck out of it.   I’m wearing the Bronwyn Dress, ($88) a blue and black fit-and-flare made of soft, […]

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Tracy and Adiaya – Chasing Dreams Together…

Everyone, meet Tracy and Adiaya. Tracy reached out to us because he wanted to share his story.   I was born Vallejo, CA, and am 40 years old. Adiaya’s 37 and from Atwater, CA. I saw her profile on InterracialDatingCentral.com and decided to make the first move – I asked if we could talk. We […]

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Beauty Tuesday: Easy Combo That Makes Skin Look So Dewy; Must-Have…

Achieving a dewy look can be a challenge, especially if you suffer from T-zone syndrome like I do. There hasn’t been one single magic-bullet formula that I’ve discovered, but I recently put together a mix of bb creams and bronzer that has seriously changed the game for me. I combined SMASHBOX BB Cream (Dark) , […]

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It’s Time to Kill Claire Huxtable…

Despite the horrific sexual abuse claims leveled against Bill Cosby over the years, The Cosby Show remains one of America’s most revered family sitcoms. Claire Huxtable, the family matriarch, is widely considered the best TV show mom, ever. Claire Huxtable was a working mother of five children, who, as a lawyer married to a stay-at-home […]

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Fear and Loathing; Interracial Dating When You’re 30+…

By Mamie Mooney For many women, dreams of love, marriage, and babies are a cluster of ever-whirling hormones, romance novels, and childhood fantasies. To these women, being the center of a family becomes more and more important as you get older – you start thinking about the future and sharing it with someone you adore […]

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What Skiing in Big Bear Taught Me About Interracial Dating Prospects…

This weekend was enlightening on so many levels. While me and the kids learned to ski for the first time, hubby was out on the highest mountain. I was relegated to the bunny slopes. And, after all that effort, I have a new appreciation for winter sports–that shit is hard. I’m sore like I was […]

Don’t You Just Love it When Racists Slip? Fox News Guest, Bob…

Someone sent me this link and I thought it was a joke. I mean, in this day and age, when interracial and intercultural relationships are at the highest approval of all time, some dusty old racist comes out to talk about how, “In his day, you didn’t see the mixing of the races.” It’s almost […]

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Reader Weighs In: Wife vs. ‘Wifey’…

I got this letter from a reader the other day, and it was so impactful, I had to cut and paste just as is! It also goes along with my video commentary about an exchange I saw between a man and a women discussing their irresponsible sex practices that led to an unwanted pregnancy. Check […]

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Video: Chris and Wes On How to Inspire Attraction with the Opposite…

Some people think attraction with the opposite sex is either “there” or it isn’t. Not necessarily. Sometimes emotions like shyness and nervousness overwhelm us to the point that, even if we are attracted, we don’t show it. Wes Murphy and I did a demonstration on how to build attraction, and the chemistry we build is […]

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Successful ‘Mompreneur': The Mastermind Behind Camille Rose…

Today is wash day for me. I have my staples, the things that are tried and true blue. Several Camille Rose Naturals products have joined the rotation because the results are undeniable. Big, fluffy, soft curls… Just about every item I’ve tried I like–especially the products in jars, because those tend to be heavier and […]

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Leona’s Love Quest: Is There Love in the Cards?…

Those of you who have been following my Love Quest for a long time already know I am a bit of a mystic. I’m really fascinated by astrology and I often find that personality assessments created from a full birth chart to be both specific and accurate (feel free to insert your disbelieving eye-rolling here.) […]

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Civil Rights: Can We Focus Less on Marching and ‘The…

I have seen trailers for upcoming movies to be released in the next few months. I see superheroes, sci-fi, fantasy, fairy tales, feel-good biographies and we are marching for civil rights… AGAIN. Do not misunderstand my words. With all due respect, I have deep appreciation for my mother’s generation. They marched, they sat at the […]

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AM/BW: “Never Settle for Secrecy”…

By Mamie Mooney I’m a huge fan of interracial dating. I just want to say that before I continue. It is my belief that people are made to love and be loved; and to grow, and be fulfilled in that love, regardless of color. All of the statistics that describe and prove us to be […]