By Pella The verdict for the Renisha McBride trial is in and Theodore Wafer, the man who shot McBride in the face on his porch in 2013 was found guilty of both Second Degree Murder and Manslaughter. According to the New York Times Wafer is facing up to life in prison. First when I heard this I was excited.Read More…
You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got ‘em. The ladies want to hear.
This post is for presenting the male POV, so women’s stories will be on another post. Anyone can comment though.
The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and supportive. Or it could have the adverse affect, causing you to break out in a cold sweat, before you leap over the nearest high bush, and take off sprinting down the street to escape having to deal with them.
I’m so stoked to see that roaring interest in actually inquiring into the needs of the po’ innah city youfs. After all, one can’t be expected to achieve great things and get ushered into the land of white milk and honey if not up to speed with the cost of doing business by those illusive gatekeepers.
Who knew how different quality underwear could feel compared to the cheap Wal*Mart kind?
One anonymous writer tells me she doesn’t want her baby daughter to ever date black men.
I wrote the first part in response to the negative attitudes I’d seen from single black women regarding marriage. Specifically people who have never been married in their lives, but keep trying to tell other black women how terrible and overrated marriage is.
Since writing the first part I’ve had a chance to think about the things I’ve seen and experienced regarding these type of black women. The very emotional response from some women is a signal that something is going on internally that they haven’t properly dealt with. You don’t get THAT stirred up about a topic that doesn’t directly involve you unless something has been triggered.
I have one friend who is a vegan, and unlike my presuppositions about meatless wonders wasting away with black hollows under their eyes and thinning hair, she is the picture of health. She recently had a very healthy and happy baby boy. And while going vegan is on the opposite road that I’m taking, I know a few of you are considering go that route, so here’s some info you can use…
Some people sure know how to spoil a good time. To be honest, I was really unconcerned over the Blurred Lines controversy. The song has become part of my summer soundtrack and I don’t care if that makes me a terrible feminist. If I still had the skinny body I did in my twenties and could get it that close to Robin Thicke, I’d be the first one in line to sign up and they wouldn’t even have to pay me.
I just read a comment on a blog that basically said, if these middle-class educated people have such a problem with underclass Black people people, then they should go down to the hood and mentor them. Well I ask this, what are middle class people supposed to teach as mentors?
We all knew she had talent, but how many of us knew our very own Tanisha Everette had THIS in her?
You know what I hate more than any other lame-ass reason why black women shouldn’t swirl? “You’re bedding the slave master.” As if whites were the ONLY ones buying and selling black skinned folks to work for free. And even if they did, GUESS WHO’S STILL DOING IT? Middle Easterners.
Thanks to my many BB&W look-outs, I came across some pretty vile comments said by Rae Dawn Chong about Oprah Winfrey. It’s pretty shocking.
Something to add to your library…
I received an inquiry from a reader several years ago for a recipe. I’ve printed a formula for what I presumed to be a basic version of the dish. I’ve discussed this dish with many of the chefs of New York’s Italian restaurants and here is my version.
Let’s recognize a good deed when it’s done.
These boys had no reason to get involved, and since they are kid’s themselves, they could have waited for permission to take the lead or turn their eyes away hoping someone else will do what needs to be done.
Do you find yourself always eating when you’re not hungry? Find out what might be eating you.
Do you know how to talk the talk?
I turned 40. The place we celebrated turned 50. In my humble opinion, both of us look pretty darn good.
What I love about children is that they are so honest. Their reactions are so pure, without blemish. One has to wonder when, exactly, that almost God-like wisdom begins to fade in some of us.
In any case, I have great hope for the kids of our future. The less racist morons populating the Earth, the better.