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SirLoin’s Babe Wenesday: She’s got Legs.

She's got legs, she knows how to use them She never begs, she knows how to choose them She's holding leg wondering how to feel them Would you get behind them if you could only find them? She's my baby, she's my baby Yeah, it's alright The girl is alright, she's alright … Read More...

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Grow It in a Bag: Patio-To-Plate Encourages Container…

As I turn off a dusty road in Temecula wine country, I can't help but be impressed with Catrina's green house, where she's growing just about everything you can imagine. She's growing everything--all non-GMO organic seeds she also … Read more...

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Five 100% Natural Beauty Products that Work 100% of the…

I'm proud to say that the majority of the things I put into my body is natural and organic, but I can't say the same thing about what goes on my body. While I try to stay away for synthetic chemicals and potentially harmful preservatives, much of my … Read more...

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Austin, TX Man Asks, “Am I the Black…

First, thanks to all the men who have been writing me lately. I'm glad you're listening and observing. Gap, meet bridge. I got this letter from a reader yesterday and it's so important I moved it to the front of the queue. An Austin, Texas man … Read more...

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Man Candy Monday/Tuesday: “Kilt” With…

I hope you all are enjoying the warm weather we're having. Me, I'm out and about keeping my eyes open for candy and potential new dates, and mates. You, well, you were hoping that this week's Man Candy Monday would be all about the men who 'kilt us … Read more...

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QOTW: “Should I Move to More Interracial…

People move for jobs all the time. But what about packing your bags for the chance at romance? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KzOCc6lxfHE&feature=share&list=UUcdZS7fxGCG0ZrQNX3EsQLg … Read more...

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Riddle Me This: What Other Award Shows Have Actual…

I'm convinced most of the wealthy black elite class in America could not give two negative phucks for 'regular' black people, and they're willing to sell folks a bill of hoodwinked goods if it will turn 30-note of silver. News you're about to hear … Read more...

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Open Thread: Hotep-Dude’s Idea of a Legit…

This photo and subsequent caption came along my Facebook feed, and not the first time--I've seen lots of propaganda of late advocating polygyny--or, er--polygamy, which basically means the same thing. My first thought is, what benefit is this to … Read more...

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I Officially Hate the Female Character for Zane’s…

So why am I a hater? Take a look at this trailer and you'll get an idea. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LErjzY_wKI Okay so this woman has TWO hot and delicious men in love with her and want her cookies?! Oh the decisions...and that's why I'm … Read more...

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Is Paying an Extra $500 for Produce Convince You To…

This post is especially targeting to my readers in California, Oklahoma and Texas--the states most affected by this ongoing drought. News released today suggests that the average household will spend an extra $500 per year on fruits and vegetables … Read more...

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It’s Here! Author Tiana Laveen’s New…

The sexy tale continues with Tiana Laveen's latest, Saint and Sinners! This book can be read as a stand-alone; however, the reader is at a tremendous disservice if the previous series installments are not read in chronological order. They are as … Read more...

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Lupita Graces Her First Lancome Ad… Take a Look!…

I' m buying what Lupita is selling and I don't even wear make-up, but I'll make an exception. Lancôme's Teint Idole Ultra 24H foundation is one of the most diverse products on the market. Check out the Academy Award winner's first Lancome ad for a … Read more...

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Why Tomatoes Should Be Growing in Your Garden and Eaten…

Tomatoes are by for the most popular plant purchased in the summer, and with good reason--tomatoes are easy to grow and prolific fruit producers. Tomatoes are also versatile in the kitchen. You can make sauces, dry them and store them in jars full of … Read more...

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Oh Lawd. The “Ghosts of Mississippi” Have…

There's been fervent discussion as of late regarding the widening disparity between the 3's and the 4's--as in curl pattern 3, which is a loose curl that a lot of mixed chicks rock (2/3 of my girls are included in this group) and the 4's--who have a … Read more...

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This Brown Baby is Oxford Bound! 8 Year Old Makes…

His name is Joshua Beckford and he's 'just a normal 8 year old', according to his proud father. He asks a lot of curious questions and he can be difficult at times. He seems like any other little boy but for the fact that he's been reading since age … Read more...

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You Know Your Polish Rocks When the Technicians Ask…

It's not often that I, as an avid gardener get both a manicure and pedicure at my local strip mall nail salon, but this time was special. I wanted to put the colors Mineral Fusion sent us for review to the ultimate test. Nail technicians are probably … Read more...

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Another BB&W Reader Success Story! Remember April…

Some of you might recall a reader letter from April, who wrote me back in 2013 about how this blog was a support to her as she began dating Henry, a fellow medical student at Brown University. Hi Christelyn! I LOVE your blog. I remember when I … Read more...

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Robin Thicke and His Very Public Attempt to Win Back…

Robin Thicke is really, really, really serious about winning back his humiliated wife, Paula Patton with this new video, "Get You Back," and warns all of us that "this is just the beginning." Not sure my stomach can handle too much more … Read more...

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Company’s Photo Discrepancy Gives Subtle Message…

I've quietly watched a company called Baby K'Tan work to dig itself out of a public relation social media nightmare because of this photo. There are two pretty glaring differences between the product on the left and the photo on the right. Can you … Read more...

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Delicious Zucchini Spaghetti with Fresh Pesto…

I'm so excited that my yellow crookneck squash is producing like gangbusters, because I'm loving being able to create delicious spaghetti-like noodles with my spiralizer, sautéing them and topping with fresh pesto using the basil I've got growing in … Read more...

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Loving Day Flagship Event Recap Plus Adorable…

If you live anywhere near the East Coast and didn't go to the Loving Day flagship event in New York City earlier this month, you might want to kick yourself. Over 1,000 people attended and drank Ashai beer, danced, and got their faces and appendages … Read more...