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Video Discussion: How to Tell if He/She is Into You…

Last Friday I had my buddy, Niki McElry, author of The Black Girls’s Guide to Dating White Men and relationships coach with a podcast called, “Date Top Ten Men,” James Swanwick to give my You Tube subscribers and members of our private Google+ group tips on how to recognize when a guy or girl is […]

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Opinion: On Defending Danielle Watts…

Let me just start by saying I’ll make no attempt to avoid projecting my own values and sensibilities into this piece.  I’ve been thinking a great deal lately about a particular debate happening in certain circles. A debate centered around the notion of what it means to be an ‘ally’.  But more pointedly, that so […]

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MAN CANDY MONDAY: 50 Shades of Bae’…

When I tell you that I’m all about sexy guys and making real life love connections I need you to know I’m so sincere! If I wasn’t I wouldn’t have complied this list of 50 Man Candy treats made of all types of shades and colors of delectable male humans. Looking at pictures through a monitor […]

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Update on Danielle Watts: BB&W Exclusive Interview with Boyfriend,…

Tonight I had the opportunity to speak with Danielle Watts’ boyfriend regarding the incident that transpired that resulted in Danielle being handcuffed and temporarily detained, presumably under suspicion of being a prostitute with her john. Her boyfriend Brian said the he and Danielle were making out in the car across from the Los Angeles home base […]

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New York Fashion Week Favorites!…

September in New York is an exciting time! New York Fashion Week gathers designers from around the globe to display their collections for the Spring/Summer of the coming year. Fashion lovers unite to celebrate the new trends and be in the city where fashion is a language unto itself. Check out a few of the Spring/Summer 2015 collections that I absolutely loved! Betsey Johnson’s Spring/Summer 2015 collection was […]

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First Photos of Keke Palmer Playing Cinderella on Broadway!…

First, it was Tiana in Disney’s Princess and the Frog. Now, it’s Keke Palmer in Cinderella. Yes ladies, I think there’s a message being sent. Any you know what? It’s a good one. This shouldn’t be a message that “the white man is a single and lonely woman’s savior,” but a message to young black […]

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Celebrity Interracial Couple, Daniele Watts and Partner Detained by…

This has got to be about the stupidest thing I’ve heard a West Coast police department do in a sea of people who mate and marry interracially more than virtually any other place in the country. Daniele Watts, who played “CoCo” in the hit movie, Django Unchained, was detained by Studio City police after they […]

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“Did This White Guy Use Me for Sex?” Yeah; Probably. But…

I received this note on my You Tube channel this morning, and it was so candid and so typical of how today’s hook-up culture has got women all mixed up, I had to share. Christelyn, I have been completely infatuated with a man since 3 years ago when we first met online through an adult […]

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QOTW: “Am I Wrong to EXPLICITLY Exclude Black Men from My Dating…

Hi Christelyn,   I have been following this website for a little while now, and im happy to know that there is a support group for those who want to expand their horizons and date outside of their color-coded box. I have been struggling with this particular problem for the past few years now, the […]

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Yoga Poses to Trim The Love Handles Right Off…

Building upon the previous yoga poses to target problem areas, take a gander at how side plank can trim off and tone those love handles. But it must be said, the BEST way to trim belly fat is through your diet. That means cutting out processed foods, white sugar, white rice and flour and potatoes. […]

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10 Ultra-Moisturizing Products We Love For Natural Hair…

  Natural hair is both beautiful and versatile. Some people seem to think that going natural means less hair maintenance, and that can be true with some styles. But as your hair gains length, you have to ensure that it gets proper moisture to retain that length and continue to grow. Here are 10 products […]

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Ask a White Guy: Older Men, Younger Women?…

by SavageTango I saw an interesting discussion going on in here not too long ago. Well, pretty much every discussion here is interesting but this one particularly so. It caught my eye real fast and I wanted to crash it and start in with my .02 about the problem these Ladies were talking about. But […]

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If You’re Single….Get a Dog!…

I can’t say that I share your frustration with being incapable of meeting people nor finding men. Seriously folks, if you are serious about finding love and romance in your life then the best advice that I can give to you is to go out in the real world and participate. If you’re single and […]

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SirLoin’s Babe Wednesday: Babes, Bikes and Bliss…

Well of course we are going to show you the babes. We are going to show you the bikes. However we are going to do more than that.   You see we have stories to tell of fearless women who ride the iron horse and take no prisoners.  For example this lovely lady below.   […]

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Black Militants Call ESPN Journalist, Jemele Hill “Race…

I just have to say something. These so-called pro-black militants on Facebook who “claim” they only desire the betterment and advancement of black people honestly scare me. They have so much contempt for black women, so much seething hatred and need to for absolute control that to have these folks take over black society would […]

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Video: You Tubers, Shelly and Michael Tie the Knot!…

Up-and-coming You Tube star couple, Shelly and Michael made it official earlier this month. They wanted to share their happy day with our community. Don’t you just love, LOVE?

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Open Forum: Okay; We Know White Men Married to Black Women are 44%…

By now a lot of  you have heard about the study by the National Council of  Family relations reported that amongst the study of 6,000 respondents, white men married to black women were 44% LESS likely to divorce out of all the interracial combinations they tested, while black men married to white women had a […]

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Next BB&W LIVE Chat: How to Know When He (or She) is Into You,…

Last week’s live chat was such a massive success, we’re doing it again, and adding another hour! We’re adding it because the topic of discussion is just too dang juicy for one, piddly hour. With special guest, author of “The Black Girl’s Guide to Dating White Men,” Niki McElroy and former Bachelor, James Swanwick, we’re […]

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Man Candy Monday: The Pittsburgh Steeler With the Awesome Hair…

I hear the Pittsburgh Steelers whupped the Cleveland Browns in the opening season game. Well, that’s all fine and good but I’m more interested in the Pittsburgh Steeler with the exceptionally awesome hair. Troy Polamalu is a Samoan American powerhouse that you just can’t ignore either because of his frenzied style of football or his equally […]

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Fabulous & Flirty Fall Trends…

Although the temperatures are bit on the high side and it seems a bit premature to pull out our jackets and scarves, the calendar lets us know that the time is drawing near. I love fall because of the brilliant and beautiful colors that the leaves change during this time. I also love pumpkin scented candles but that’s […]