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Nenh & Ladi Trenh – Full Bloomed Blasian Love…

Beautiful!!

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This is Forty……

Today is my birthday, and there’s a lot of 7’s in it. Seventh month, seventeenth day, born the year 1973, at 7:03 in the morning. I suppose all those sevens have given me a little luck over my lifetime. As a newly-minted member of the Fabulous 40’s club, I’ve gotta say I feel pretty damn good. I’m old enough to (mostly) not do the stupid, impulsive stuff of my youth, and still young enough to capitalize on that wisdom. And while I’m four decades old, I feel like I’m 25–just with more brains in my head. I’m taking care of my mind and my body, and never cease learning. Some notable bits of knowledge…

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Do You Feel The Need to Distance Yourself from Other Black Women?…

Several times I have seen black women write that black women need to act to distance themselves from other black women. But why would I need to distance myself from the actions of another black woman if I am in no way, shape, or form involved in that other woman’s behavior? And if I don’t see myself as being in any way connected to that other woman’s actions, then the only other alternative reason why I would need to distance myself from that woman is to appease the sentiments of some outsider who is unable–or, most likely, unwilling–to distinguish me as an individual from that other woman.

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Question of the Week: Swirling and Racially Charged Subjects.…

How do you and your honey handle discussions of racially-charged subject in which you find yourselves on opposite ends?

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Race Relations Expert Says “Stop Questioning Zimmerman Verdict;…

It is the position of the editorial staff at Beyond Black & White that the killing of Trayvon Martin, an innocent, unarmed teenager, was tragic. We are shocked and saddened that the Martin family did not receive justice for the loss of their child. Many of our readers–myself included–have biracial sons–and the thought of any of our children being a target because of their dress and color of their skin frightens us to the core.

However, we often discuss issues within the black community that you will be hard pressed to find on any other news site. We are all observing in real time the outrage reverberating throughout black communities, and black leaders like Al Sharpon vow to “never rest” until George Zimmerman is punished. Perhaps during one of his multitude of press conferences some reporter might be brave enough to ask him if he will also “never rest” until the crisis of black-on-black crime is addressed.

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Serious VELVET Lips: Urban Decay Brings Back Lipstick and It’s…

I got a chance to visit the Urban Decay master command center last week so I can bring you the details on what’s hot when the weather cools in the fall. And this year, it’s all about the lipstick, and after years of shelving the stuff, Urban Decay has brought back lipstick with a vengence.

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Video: (most) Black Women Aren’t Sex-Starved Jezebels, So Come…

This note and subsequent video speaks to all the mouth-breathing miscreants who think black women are all sex-crazed thirsties looking for crumbs.

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Halle Berry and “The Squinter” To Marry This Weekend…

She’s marrying “The Squinter!!”

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Winners Announced for the First BB&W Fitness Challenge!!…

Congrats to the following ladies who won our first fitness challenge!!! Seenyc WorldTravelingChic Lady Humor I initially only meant to select one winner, but I just couldn’t. All three ladies worked HARD throughout the challenge and even continued after it was over. So…each of the three ladies will receive a $50.oo gift card, courtesy of […]

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Friday Funny: Do Black Women Have a B*tchy Resting Face?…

My BB&W opertatives came upon this video and shared it with me, and while it’s funny, there’s whole lot of truth to it. While the white chicks in this video call it “bitchy resting face,” in the hood we call it “mean mug.” Of course, when it comes to dating and trying to be approachable to men of all races, colors and creeds, the “mean” rest face can be a serious impediment, especially if a man has some presuppositions and stereotypes about black women coming from the womb being neck-twirling biotches.

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A “Twisted” Commentary On Black Women As TV Love Interests…

I confess, as someone who doesn’t watch ABC Family (the programming is a bit “young” for me much of the time), the show “Twisted” was not on my radar. However, if you are looking for extremely swirl-friendly entertainment, this is probably THE most black woman, especially black teen, swirl-friendly show on TV.

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#Trending: Mod Style…

Twiggy did it. Edie Sedgwick did it. Audrey Hepburn and Diana Ross did it, too. Mod style is back with a zest only modern fashionistas/fashionistos could invent. It was all over the runways, from Louis Vuitton to Coco Chanel.

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Question of the Week: “Should I Approach A Black Girl In Front…

A young college rainbeau asks me if he should approach a girl he’s interested in while she’s in her all-black social circle.

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Me on Paleo: The Short Run Might Be Better Than the Long Run…

Can running like you’re being chased by a saber-toothed lion help you drop that fat faster than long distance running?

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Adorable Aussie Couple!…

I have a thing for chocolate women who look like dolls. This is one of them. Lucky, lucky guy.

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Ron Finley: “Grow Some Sh*t!!”…

Saw this video yesterday and thought it was timely, since we’re talking so much these days about eating clean. Take a look at what this man has to say about how to deal with “food deserts.”

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Chinese Flair Egg Drop Soup and Spare Ribs…

Original recipe egg drop soup makes 1 quart of soup. Egg drop soup literally “egg flower soup”) is a Chinese soup of wispy beaten eggs in boiled chicken broth. Condiments such as black pepper or white pepper, and finely chopped scallions and are also commonly added. The soup is finished by adding a thin stream of beaten eggs to the boiling broth in the final moments of cooking, creating thin, silken strands or flakes of cooked egg that float in the soup. Egg drop soup using different recipes is also known as a simple-to-prepare soup in different European countries and Japan.

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You Decide: What Kind of Black Woman Are You?…

WARNING: If you do not believe in ideals or striving to be better, please do not read this post or comment. If you had issues with my last post I would prefer it if you did not read this post or comment.      The purpose of this post is to figure out who the BB& […]

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Eating Paleo/Wheatless: What’s In My Pantry This Week?…

Sometimes it can be hard to process what you can eat once you get the bit list of stuff you’re not supposed to eat. After the no wheat, no processed foods, and no sugar, what’s left? As a follow up to my previous post on my break-up with wheat, here’s a photo of my latest grocery stash. Everything I bought is in season, so the prices are reasonable and I can get maximum freshness packed with nutrients.

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Show Me the Links!! We’re Self-Hating “White Meat”…

Have at it, haters!