Online dating companies that allow you to tick the boxes of your racial preferences often leave black women with the short end of the stick. For a variety of reasons we’ve discussed in the past, there’s often a hesitancy to list us as a preference, and we’re often filtered out. But more often than not,Read More…
We’ve come leaps and bounds ahead when it comes to the country’s acceptance of interracial relationships. You have your boo, he has you. You’re in love. When there’s four walls, you feel absolute freedom to love the hell out of them. In public, you clam up, walk three paces ahead and pretend you’re not together. […]
Some of you were really, really upset that I didn’t take Halle’s side in her latest split. My main aim was for it to be a teachable moment. Basically, if you have a string of failed relationships, the common denominator is you, regardless of the race, ethnicity, fame or fortune of the man or woman […]
All I can say is, did they grow up in the same house???! He’s married, a present father, and appears to be a VERY positive person. God bless him and Angel. Let’s celebrate those who stick their necks out despite the fire-breathing black women haters running like zombies to eat their brains.
CNN has reported that the ongoing conflict in Sudan based NOT on race, but ethnicity continues despite previous attempts to cease fire. Sadists are forcing mostly civilians to drink human blood and burnt carcasses. Rape is as common as a handshake. Children continue to be forced into fighting the military conflict. If there is such […]
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Hand claps all day. Never mind that the cartoon black guy looks like Will Smith. I don’t even need to add anything, but I will. It’s a shame that people don’t see young black girls as, well…young, and girls. I’ve sat back and watched these idiots celebrate EVERY TIME they see a black female–young or […]
Hello, Mrs. K, I’m Chris (please don’t say my name, say something like “random white guy” or whatever, instead, please? lol That’s if you decide to use my question/letter thing) and I find myself in a particularly strange and difficult situation, regarding interracial dating. I’ve been a fan of your series on youtube for a […]
Got this note for a beautiful young lady who REALLY needs our group’s help. Here’s what she wrote: Hello , christelyn I currently started watching you on YouTube and you have truly inspired me..which is way today after hours feeling extremely worthless I decided to send you a email. I’ve seen you help so […]
They met on a train, and from the way she looks, who the HELL could resist? They’re both hot tho… Marriott started a campaign to highlight peoples’ love of travels, and Anoushka and Christoph are one of the featured characters. They travel together on motorcycles, and the first thing they do when they check into […]
You know it’s true when People confirmed it. Halle Berry, the perpetual divorcee, has reportedly split with her second baby daddy, Olivier Martinez, after just two years. I’ve gotten attacked in the past at going hard on Halle, folks wanted me to sympathize with her out of some misguided sense of solidarity, but I go by […]
I just received an email from David, who emailed me a picture of his wife of two years. They met in Arkansas. ARKANSAS. They met…on our Facebook fan page. He’s cute!!! I’m a little jelly about those long natural locks tho…whatchu using girl? 😉 And then, here’s Lasha, who met her very cute boyfriend on […]
We know the origins of colorism worldwide is from an antiquated notion of white supremacy; a psychological tactic used to allow the ruling class to mentally justify subjugating humans simply because they looked and lived differently from them. The ruling class knew that as races mixed, it would be impossible for those in power to […]
Two days ago I put on a treatment masque that you’re not supposed to keep on for more than 30 minutes. Unfortunately, I fell asleep with it on. The next morning I woke with irritated cheeks with small bumps, like a rash, that was sensitive to the touch. I freaked out! Those bumps looked like […]
AAWG: “Acting Black”; To Be, Or Not To Be? by Savage Tango “Hey, there’s that guy I was telling you about!” There’s certain words a white guy just doesn’t wanna hear directed at him, especially when he hears them and looks up, only to see a group of Black folks looking right at him while […]
I recently got this note from a fan: Dear Christelyn, I am a twenty-three year old African American female who is in need of some advice. There is this Latino boy who I have a massive crush on. I think he might be shy because he usually does not interact with me unless I initiate […]
‘Maxi’ recently had to take home a robot baby that cries, needs a bottle, needs to be burped, and cries some more. Take a look at how she handled it. Seriously…every teenage needs to take home Layla. Multiple episodes of “Scared Straight” for kids who think they’re ready for babies.
Got this question from a reader, and thought the folks here would enjoy being the experts. 😉 Hello! I recently stumbled upon your blog, and I have enjoyed reading your articles and the commentary that goes on. I am writing to you because I have a question for you and also for your other married […]
The situation: ” I was interested in one man who seemed incredible. Then another started competing with me over him. I asked him to be honest with me about the situation. He told me to ignore her because she was obnoxious. She is Hispanic. She thinks that she is better than me. I didn’t want […]
This is new open thread that offers the opportunity to share another of TriniGril1’s entertaining slideshows. This one is all about engagements, rings and wedding bling. Yep, the holidays are indeed coming and with it a special treat for some lucky couple or two. A bit of an announcement here: Save the date. 12/1/2015. […]
I won’t and will never have a big, juicy booty like those hotties on Instagram you see, but that doesn’t mean I’m not working to keep the derrière. In addition to the 3.5 hours of yoga I do every week, I take some time out to squats during any downtime I have, […]