In This Version of “Rosemary’s Baby,” the Demon Seed is Hosted by an Interracial Couple.

One of my favorite 1960's movies of all time is Rosemary's Baby, a tale of financially struggling New York newlyweds whose luck inexplicably changes when they move into an apartment populated by who initially seem to be good-natured, sweet-but-nosy geriatrics. Guy, Rosemary's husband, is a … Read More...

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Check Out My “Swirlr” Interview on CNN/HLN…Now the World Knows…Mwhhahaha!

I was sick as a dog doing this show, but I managed to keep it together long enough to not look like I was ready to throw up on my shoes. I love the folks over at CNN…they are the only network that’s been so supportive of the notion of our changing demographic, and acknowledging […]

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Ain’t No Mountain High Enough – The Barbara Hillary Story

  I stumbled across this video of the fabulous Barbara Hillary a couple years back and revisited it today.  As a relationship coach, I meet many women who don’t think they could go across town alone.  Some will call their mothers for something as simple as breaking a necklace, or have a fit if they can’t […]

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Have You Seen the Adorable “Annie” Trailer Starring the Amazing Quvenzhané Wallis? Yes; Little Black Girls are Worth Saving

“Annie” was one of my most-loved movies of all time. I introduced my children to it and it’s a pleasure we share together. I must admit I wasn’t sure what to expect from Quvenzhané Wallis taking over the role as Annie, but from the looks of it, she’s fit in just fine. There’s a few […]


Time to Reactivate the Friday Funny: “Who Would You Boink, Livefyre Edition!

It’s been a loooong time since we’ve done, “Who Would You Boink,” and we haven’t done it since Livefyre allowed for commenters to post pictures and videos. Now BOINK 2.0 will be even more delicious. Okay here’s mine… Henry Cavill…Lawd…LAWD!! His lips are looking a little dry in this photo, though. Somebody pass him Lupita’s […]


Really, Nicki Minaj? What Are You Trying to Prove?

I was over at one of my favorite guilty-pleasure gossip sites and saw these photos of Nicki Minaj all-the-way-nekkid self posing dripping wet so all her fans can see she has hair down to the middle of her back. But why? What is she trying to prove…that she had hair under all that weave? Well […]

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Rachel Canning, Girl Suing Her Parents for College Tuition Just Might Be a Sociopath

Have you been following the story of 18-year-old college student, Rachel Canning, who is suing her parents, demanding that they pay for her high school and college tuition despite her absolute refusal to follow their rules? Honey-chile left when her parents had the NERVE to demand that she stop seeing a boy who they thought […]

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It’s Here! The First Episode of “Swirlr”

Sorry for the delay, but worry not, lovelies…here’s the first episode. I had a lot of fun with Kurt and Quintana. Both are young, and both have a lot to learn. You’ll learn more about each of them in future episodes, which will be released biweekly. Next episode, Kurt and Quintana will meet the candidates […]

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Confessions From a Woman Struggling with Her Sanity…Can You Relate?

Writing has always been my escape from life. I understood, at a very early age, that no one really gave a fuck about what happened to me. My job as a child, and especially as a foster child, was to shut the fuck up, don’t create trouble, obey and create as many opportunities for my […]

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Strange Fruit…But It’s Still Good For You

So I went out to my lime tree this morning and found this… And somebody had a dirty mind and did this… And then The Hubster did this… In any case, no matter what they look like on the outside, the same skin-loving goodness is the same on the inside. I start my morning with […]

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Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dating Out

Attention haters, I have a confession. I only engage you in conversation in order to do the following: To demonstrate how much of an idiot you are, to show the world you’re an idiot, and to give real examples of your idiocy. Got this note on our Facebook fan page minutes ago. I was like […]

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Lovely in Lavender: Claire and Phil

Look at Phil and Claire’s beautiful wedding photographs.  It seemed very well planned, simple and elegant.  I found these on Hitched.  Enjoy these fabulous photographs.  They look so happy.   Photo credits:  A Little Box of Memories.   Claire and Phil met at a salsa club in Norwich and after a couple of dance related conversations […]