Gender Conflict

ORIGINAL POST with restored comment thread ~ B...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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Why Do Some Black Women Consider Marriage “T...

I wrote the first part in response to the negative attitudes I'd seen from single black women regarding marriage. Specifically people who have never b...
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Women are Winning in the Workplace…Kind of

The Pew Research Center released a report last week under the headline “Breadwinner Moms.” A misleading title in all, they forgot to add "Includin...
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How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pul...

This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I ...
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Why We Don’t Talk About Black Men: ...

I think in order to better understand why black men as a topic come up in BW-centric and BWE spaces, you must understand why they do not come up. ...
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The Five Stages of Black Woman Grief, Part 1

I have observed behaviors in black women, self included, that made me think of the Kübler-Ross model or "Five Stages of Grief". Many black women have...
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Who Da F*ck Did I Think I Am………&...

More artistry from our favorite BB&W poet......
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Triple Consciousness and the Black Woman

It is a strange lot to be a black woman in American society. She was brought to this country to be an unpaid worker, a concubine and a broodmare. Her ...
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Being Soft is Pretty Sweet :)

WARNING!!! This post is not meant for happily masculine women, happily androgynous women, or feminists, so for all of our sake please skip this post....
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Come Hither: Dirty Old Man or Experienced Lover? L...

I'm often the predator, but a young girl couldn't walk around being plump and juicy without coming to learn about the dreaded neighborhood phenomena k...
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My Sex Life is None of Your Business!!! Or is it?

What women do with their privates is no one else's business and it doesn't harm anyone as long as the sex is consensual and safe right? I disagree. I ...
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Does Lifting a Ban on Women in Combat Help with Ge...

The Pentagon wants to allow women on the front-lines of combat. But, do the ends justify the means?...
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One Blogger Says, “Feminism Ruined Courtship...

Feminism has left a relationship vacuüm resulting in confused women who do not know how to interact with men thus making them more vulnerable to expl...
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