Gender Conflict

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate...

This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The”Swirling” book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to...
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Why Are Sisters at the Ivy Leagues Still Caught Up...

It’s the ultimate irony when a black woman feels empowered to reach the highest echelons of academia yet feels so powerless when it comes to dat...
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The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Sh...

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial weig...
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NOT AGAIN!! Another White Guy with a Black Girlfri...

The details are sketchy, but it looks like some 20-year-old miscreant shot and killed a white guy with a black girlfriend. We don’t yet know the...
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New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to D...

One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who’ve probably heard from one l...
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Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood L...

#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that’s what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, i...
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Studies (and experience) Show Black Men Benefit an...

In two separate studies, Megan Holland and  Simone Ipsa-Landa examined the experiences of Black boys and girls who participated in diversity program...
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59% Of Black Women Have Multiple Fathers. I’...

  This little bit of go-kill-yourself news appeared on my Facebook feed this evening… Black Women: 59 Percent Have Multiple Babies’ Daddi...
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Black Women, Swirling, and Self-Sabotage

Saturday I got the kick-ass pleasure of attending the Atlanta premier of My Last Day Without You, starring Nicole Beharie (Sleepy Hollow, anyone?) and...
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Everyone Loves The Strong Independent Black Woman!

Dear wonderful Black community, Interacting with Black women has been such a pleasure and I have learned so much! One thing I never realized was how m...
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Who Owns a Black Woman’s Womb?

Despite the fact that a lack of being married is usually the result of a man not asking, it has been typically expected that the black women bear sole...
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QOTW: “Should a Woman Ever Play Down Her Acc...

I got this question from a pretty successful friend of mine, and it took me a while to answer because I wanted to make sure I wasn't coming from a pla...
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DUPLICATE POST with fresh comment thread ~ com...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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The Marissa Alexander Story: This Is What Could Ha...

What can black women learn from Marissa's choices?...
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