Gender Conflict

QUIZ: Do you deserve black male protection?

WRITTEN BY NICOLE Do You Deserve Black Male Protection? Take this quiz to find out! There has been a lot of talk online about the concept of protectio...
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Western-prescribed nuclear family

Critically Examining What BLM Believes –> Di...

Edited by Eubie Drew -- We [Black Lives Matter]... (a)  disrupt the Western-prescribed nuclear family structure requirement (b)  by supporting...
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Rottweilers, Bulldogs, and Black Women

Written by Nicole J. Before today, I didn’t know who Ari Lennox was. My first introduction to this beautiful black woman was some idiot on Twitter c...
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The Downside to Black Women’s Loyalty

Written by Nicole J. In this episode of “Black Women Crowdfund the Craziest Things!” we see what I suspect is a black woman attempting to raise mo...
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“I want the black woman the white guy get...

Written by Nicole J. An interesting shirt came across my timeline today, and even though there are only nine words on it, it made quite a powerful (al...
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Should a neurosurgeon marry a shoe salesman?

Written by Nicole J. I’m aware that the scenario is probably made up, only posted on the internet to get people triggered and bothered. But as the k...
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Should couples split the cost of an engagement rin...

Written by Nicole J. Here I am again, writing a blog after seeing some nonsense on Facebook. I came across this poll on my feed a while back (names le...
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How to respond to unwanted male attention

Written by Nicole J. Since the dawn of time, women have received unwanted advances from men. In days of old, the tried and true line “I have a boyfr...
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Six Reasons Black Women Should Avoid HBCU’s

  Ah…I remember the movie, School Daze. Spike Lee did an excellent job displaying the dynamics of colorism between sororities and how frate...
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8 Ways Black Fathers Fail Their Children

Written by Nicole J. For many black people, Father’s Day is a tough day to deal with. Whether their father was absent their whole life, or was prese...
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Man, those swirlers sure must be miserable!

Written by Nicole J. The narrative commonly believed is that because I didn’t marry a black man and still write about black women’s relationship i...
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“At least I have a man!” is not a clap...

Written by Nicole J. Imagine with me, if you will. You are single, happy, and doing your thing. You might be in school, working on your degree. Or, yo...
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Why I say no to coffee dates

After escaping a tedious 12 year relationship (don’t ask!), I have been thrust into the world of online dating…and so far, it has been a huge disa...
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Olamide Adeyooye, Killed for Being a “Bed We...

It’s 10:58 PM and I’m watching one of my favorite shows to put on for background noise. I like listing to Forensic Files because I can pop...
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