How Self Described “Good Guys” Usually...

I’m the type of female that listens with her Spidey sense when it comes to men attempting to state their case on why I should consider them a fo... READ MORE

Why Is Everyone Mad At A “Non-Working”...

I find that there are few things that piss off black people more than a stay at home black mother. Not stay at home mother, but stay at home BLACK mot... READ MORE

You Tried It: On Unsuitable Men Hiding Behind R...

In my previous article on the whole “gold digger” meme, I said the following: It is really tiring to me when I see people throwing [the wo... READ MORE

Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over you...

I recently ran across a post from a “Pick Up Artist” site  by an expert giving advice to non-black men on how to date black women. It was... READ MORE

That Awkward Privilege: The Mixed Power Status of ...

Ever wanted to demonstrate the paradox of Black Male [Mixed] Privilege by systematically illustrating how male privilege is fully analogous to White ... READ MORE

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen&...

Dear “I’m Here To Find My Black Queen” Black Men, Hello, how are things? Is the new year off to a good start? I hope so. 🙂 I see ... READ MORE

Commentary on Men Caught Red-Handed Being…Me...

By Pella Why is it, that anytime a woman criticizes men, not even criticizes lets say merely makes an observation of men, she is considered a man hati... READ MORE

Atlanta Parking Attendent Writes ‘Jungle Fev...

Fox News Atlanta reported today that an interracial couple, a black woman and a white man, encountered overt bigotry by a parking attendant who wrote ... READ MORE

Are Women Wrong When They Shut Down Men Who Commen...

A recent conversation from the comments over at Consumption and Control: The Foundation of Men’s Sexuality? deserves it’s own post.  Friends... READ MORE

Dear “Nuttin’ Butta Brotha Women”...

  Dear “Nothing But A Brother” and “I Don’t Date White Guys” black women, How do you feel? Is your holiday season a... READ MORE

“If Black Men See Us With White Men, It Will...

I don’t know how many ways it can be said that in this life you are free to choose and love whoever you wish. Or that spaces like this featuring... READ MORE

Consumption and Control: The Foundation of MenR...

My recent comment over at Tracy Renee Jones‘s post “Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness to Ignore The Sexual Assault of Bla... READ MORE

Okay, then. So Let’s Talk About Black Women ...

I was thinking since we were talking about the word “desperate” being thrown around, why not bring it around to another word that certain ... READ MORE

QOTW: “Help! I’m Afraid My Family Won&...

The Question… Hi Christelyn, my name is Zahara, I’m 20 years old, and I am coming to you with in need of advice on my situation. I met a g... READ MORE