Twitter After Dark: Life, Love and the Pursuit of ...

The title is a little sensational, but bear with me. This post is going to be spicy! The other day, I left a work event very late. When I came home, I... READ MORE

The Pink Pill Meets a Real-Life African Princess, ...

If you haven’t started following Korra Obidi Dean on Instagram, you’re missing out on an eyeful of delight. This Nigerian singer and dance... READ MORE

The Photograph Movie: First Impressions

As an aside, this post is dedicated to all of the lovely ladies who encourage us to post more about black love. It never ceases to amuse me that peopl... READ MORE

Is Birthing 14 Black Babies the Epitome of Black L...

Written by Penelope Farthing   I have never seen a full episode of Black Women Own The Conversation, just clips. The clips tell me all I need to ... READ MORE

Jade and Tom: A New Perspective, Part 2

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them.... READ MORE

Jade and Tom: One Year of Love, Part One

After I posted a picture of another couple on our social media, Jade and Tom reached out. I am so glad to have had the opportunity to speak with them.... READ MORE

Niecy Nash: How NOT to keep a man

Written by Penelope Farthing Niecy Nash sadly reported that she and her husband Jay Tucker are calling it quits after eight years of marriage. This is... READ MORE

He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Penelope and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interview... READ MORE

Should black women say bye to bi guys?

Written by Penelope Farthing There has been much chat about the sexual practices and beliefs of some celebrity black men of late. Malik Yoba has been ... READ MORE

Jealousy: Meghan, Wendy, and Candace

Written by Penelope Farthing Meghan, Duchess of Sussex has been in headlines more this week, following a documentary airing her struggles with adjusti... READ MORE

Nicki Minaj – A Cautionary Tale

Nicki Minaj apparently married her felonious boyfriend Kenneth Petty this week, and while I’m saddened by the subterranean depths she reached in... READ MORE

Dating lessons my mother taught me

Written by Penelope Farthing If you couldn’t tell by my abrasive, somewhat acerbic writing style, especially when it comes to topics I am passionate... READ MORE

Even more swirling scare tactics you might encount...

Written by Penelope Farthing Now we are up to our third edition of swirling scare tactics that black women might hear when they test out interracial d... READ MORE

Another Pink Pill Dosage: Couples in Review, Part ...

We are back again with another “Pink Pill Dosage,” where I look back on some of the past couple spotlights, and draw some advice, insight and real... READ MORE