“Hump Day” Special: Kelly Slater Might...

Hmmpf………. You see what I did right there? I may have outdone myself this time. You might have thought I was trying to imply somethin... READ MORE

“Love @ First Click: The Ultimate Guide to O...

Horror stories about online dating abound on the internet, but it doesn’t have to be that way. If you date smart, you shouldn’t find onlin... READ MORE

Swirling and Marriage: Tricia and Peter

Oh look at Tricia and Peter of San Francisco.  What a beautiful bride and handsome groom.  Can you get more basic than a natural but glam style the�... READ MORE

The Solution for Educated Black Women Who Want to ...

I went to a funeral today for a cousin’s husband who died suddenly from a heart attack. Both in their fifties and her first marriage, my cousin ... READ MORE

New Study Confirms the Online is the Best Way to D...

One of the chief fears I hear from people curious about interracial dating is that is rejection. Non-black men, who’ve probably heard from one l... READ MORE

Feast Your Eyes Friday: Danai Gurira Is a Beautifu...

With skin the tone of dark chocolate and a smile that radiates quiet confidence how can you not be enthralled by the lovely Danai Jekesai Gurira? I o... READ MORE

Up for Discussion: “Are White Men the New Bl...

Oh…this post is gonna make some GAT-DL folks mad. But since when did that EVER stop us? My dearest Kola Boof tagged me in one of the many DeBlas... READ MORE

Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood L...

#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that’s what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, i... READ MORE

Man Candy Monday: Colin Kaepernick Can Tackle Me A...

They say you a girl looks for the type of man that reminds her of her father. Well, my father Big Jessie was, big, standing at 6’2 so tall men h... READ MORE

What Your Typical Black Woman Means When She Says,...

Having run an interracial dating website for the past three years, I can’t add up how many times I’ve heard that phrase. “GET ME A W... READ MORE

Photos of the Day: Twinsies!

Last September when me and The Hubster took a trip to his old stomping ground in Beverly Hills, I ran into a woman I couldn’t take my eyes off o... READ MORE

The Scandal: Is Newlywed Kerry Washington Expectin...

This just in! Bronx born Kerry Washington and new husband, Nnamdi Asomugha, are currently expecting their first child. The internet is about to explo... READ MORE

Being Discerning versus Being Judgemental

Being Discerning This is sort of a rambling post. I just read an excellent article on Psychology Today called “Don’t be Judgemental, Be Di... READ MORE

One Letter Writer’s Experience Being the Onl...

There’s very few letters I get that move me to immediate action, but this one did. Once you read it you’ll understand why. I bolded the mo... READ MORE