QOTW: One Viewer Asks, “Why Do Black Men See...

  Here’s my not-so-politically correct answer.... READ MORE

BB&W Writer Goes Full Throttle Matchmaker Mod...

After kicking the idea around for a while, I’m excited to finally pursue utilizing a matchmaker! While I don’t mind being single, the idea of a ro... READ MORE

Stuff I Bet You Don’t Know that You SHOULD K...

Matthew Hussey is about the most brilliant (and gorgeous) relationships coach I’ve ever met, and I’m not just saying that because he’... READ MORE

Hilarious Video Pokes Fun of Common Questions Whit...

How many of you guys can identify with any or all of this?... READ MORE

Tis the Season to Give: The Naughty or Nice Adult ...

Baby, it’s cold outside, so what’s a girl to do to keep warm!? Well, as with anything else, you’ve got options, baby. You could alwa... READ MORE

White Guy Asks, “How Do I Protect Black Wome...

I just got this letter and wanted to publish it immediately. I am pleased to see that the conversations that take place on this site about the lack of... READ MORE

The Dumbest Reasons Offered For Why Black Women Sh...

I have been actively working on being a smaller weight for about a year or so (inactively for a few years before that. I observed that my initial weig... READ MORE

NOT AGAIN!! Another White Guy with a Black Girlfri...

The details are sketchy, but it looks like some 20-year-old miscreant shot and killed a white guy with a black girlfriend. We don’t yet know the... READ MORE

One Social Scientist’s Advice for Black Wome...

Author’s Note: What you are about to read may bruise your ego. Hard truths are being told here, and while you might wail that the injustice of w... READ MORE

Photo of the Day: At the In-Laws Without ‘Th...

The kids and I flew in from San Diego last night to spend Thanksgiving with Grandma and Grandpa in Westport, Connecticut. For the first time since The... READ MORE

Facebook Knows The One Thing You Must Do to Make Y...

With over one billion users, Facebook has probably the largest population of any advertiser from which to sample for research purposes. Out of this re... READ MORE

Somebody Call the GAT-DL! Another White Dude (Who ...

I’m admittedly not a fan of WWE, but I AM a fan of hot dudes. And I thought with all the negativity we might make a little fun. Ladies, feast yo... READ MORE

Franchesca Marries Her Boo on the Beach!!

You Tube star, “Chescaleigh” announced yesterday that she married her best friend. They are adorable. My heart bursts every time I see ack... READ MORE

Question of the Week: “Help! I’m Suffe...

I got this letter today from a reader. The emphasis is mine. I seem to be dealing with the “Dating a Rainbeau Impostor Complex”.   I can&... READ MORE