Relationships

Matthew Hussey and I Talk “Interracial Awake...

I'm convinced Matthew and I can not do a video together without bursting out laughing. This is one, you'll like, promise. ;-)...
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Have A Seat, Bigots: No Self-Respecting Swirl-Mind...

To said bigots, I present this empty stadium. It may take you awhile to work your way around. You might have to miss a couple of days of work. There m...
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John McCain’s Son Marries a Black Woman. Let...

Sorry to once again blow holes through your "Swirling is not a movement!!" rants, trolls. Wait. I take that back. Instead, I'll say, IN YO' FACE!!! BW...
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Zoe Saldana and Marco Perego Take Their Relationsh...

It looks like Zoe Saldana has thrown her I'm-so-androgynous-I-might- raise-my-future-children-with-a-girlfriend spiel out the window. A few weeks a...
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QOTW: “Help! I Have a SWIRLING Question!R...

She says it's a "Swirl" question, but it really isn't......
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Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is N...

I think perhaps some of the fans of BB&W don't understand what this site is about. It's not just a swirling club. It's also about (1) improving your c...
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You Aren’t SPECIAL!! Know the Signs of a Dan...

I am in the process of counseling a friend who has been dating a sociopath. For months this man strung her along, making her feel like there might be ...
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“Men Aren’t Stupid. And Nine Other Fre...

There is no shortage of relationship books being marketed to women. In such a flooded field, a book that would be worth your time to read needs to mak...
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Swirling Success in Sweden!

Got this note from "LB", a woman who ditched the naysayers and found her true love. Here's her story, in her words......
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Swirling and Marriage – Andreas and Zani

When I came across this couple I was actually drawn into the photo by the intense and deep love Danish Andreas Anderskou and South African Zani Suttl...
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Why Would You Date or Marry a Known Racist?

A couple of days ago I was led to a story on one of those white nationalists sites about a white racist who loves black women and is with one of the s...
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Question of the Week: “My Brother Says He Wi...

"Hi, I'm a 19 years old and I'm very interesting in swirling I have had interest in white guys before but never really made an attempt at dating them ...
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How Do Black Women Respond When Someone “Pul...

This post is a bit tricky because it deals with the issue of intersectionality. I strongly suggest people read up on the term and who is impacted. I ...
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Reason 20 Kabillion Why Wal*Mart Sucks: White Fath...

Forget about "What The Cuss?!" file this story under "OMG Seriously?? GTFOOH!!"...
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