Relationships

QOTW: “I Can’t Stand My Black Girlfrie...

Guy loves girl, but hates her "hood" name. Take a look at what I say....
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“Blindian” Love! Best Wedding Video Ev...

I ran across this video via our Facebook fan page after Stephanie and Vijay sent me a wedding photo from their recent nuptials on June 21. Someone fou...
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EarthJeff: Swirling on Planet Earth Part 11 –...

Now that I am becoming SO experienced in relationship matters (quit rolling your eyes, that was said “tongue-in-cheek”)…. I want to share my ru...
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Texting Tricks Every Girl Should Know…

I ran across this video by "Mehow," a self-proclaimed pick-up artist. At first, I was struck at how nerdy and corny this guy looks, but once you get p...
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DUPLICATE POST with fresh comment thread ~ com...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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QOTW: Dealing with Racist Friends and Family Membe...

Got this note from a young girl the same week as they guy who wrote in with the skinhead brother. Time to address how to properly deal with bigots....
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QOTW Audience Feedback Edition: “How Can I C...

I got this letter a couple days ago but just got around to reading it. Take a look, dearies--this one is all you. I'm super busy with admin stuff toda...
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Yes Virginia, Black Women DO BENEFIT from Interrac...

This is an article I wrote for AfroCaribe magazine to be published in their August 2013 issue. I want to share it here because it pretty much encapsul...
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The Marissa Alexander Story: This Is What Could Ha...

What can black women learn from Marissa's choices?...
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ORIGINAL POST with restored comment thread ~ B...

I'm gonna go ahead and ask....what's the worst thing about being the rare flower in the garden?...
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“After I Met Your Mother”: Rainbeaus, ...

You have lurked long enough now. Any rainbeaus with dating, courting, marrying, or family creation stories, time to spill it. We know you got 'em. The...
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Getting Familiar with His Familia: Meeting His Fam...

The word family can either cause the average person to break out in a huge smile while feeling those warm and tingly reminders of all things safe and ...
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Question of the Week: “Am I Wrong for Wantin...

One anonymous writer tells me she doesn't want her baby daughter to ever date black men....
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