Relationship Red Flags: The Longer You Accept the ...

If your tolerance for foolishness is high, you might not recognize the signs of dysfunction. Read and learn.... READ MORE

Matthew Hussey Talks “Interracial Awakenings...

As promised, here's the conclusion of the chat I had with Matthew Hussey earlier this month. I'm just warning you...something he's going to say at the... READ MORE

All’s Fair In Love And War: Swirl Edition, I...

Have you experienced or observed black women trying to sabotage other women considering interracial dating?... READ MORE

Swirling, Young, Beautiful and Disabled?

In light of the wonderful discussion prompted by a QOTW that stumped our wise one, I could not help think of the first person who followed me on Tumbl... READ MORE

Jenn M. Jackson Says, “Cheerios Commercial P...

Eric Liu at Time Magazine offered a post-racialist perspective of the Cheerios Ad which aired on YouTube last week. Jenn M. Jackson has some disagreem... READ MORE

Help! This QOTW Has Me Stumped!!

Most of the dating questions I get on this blog are pretty easy for me to address, and for the most part, I'm confident that my advice is solid. But I... READ MORE

Women are Winning in the Workplace…Kind of

The Pew Research Center released a report last week under the headline “Breadwinner Moms.” A misleading title in all, they forgot to add "Includin... READ MORE

Leona’s Love Quest Part XXIII- Meet Me in St. L...

Greetings from St. Louis! I landed a much better gig than the one I did last summer in Steamboat Springs, Colorado and without the threat of wildfires... READ MORE

Matthew Hussey and I Talk “Interracial Awake...

I'm convinced Matthew and I can not do a video together without bursting out laughing. This is one, you'll like, promise. ;-)... READ MORE

Have A Seat, Bigots: No Self-Respecting Swirl-Mind...

To said bigots, I present this empty stadium. It may take you awhile to work your way around. You might have to miss a couple of days of work. There m... READ MORE

John McCain’s Son Marries a Black Woman. Let...

Sorry to once again blow holes through your "Swirling is not a movement!!" rants, trolls. Wait. I take that back. Instead, I'll say, IN YO' FACE!!! BW... READ MORE

Zoe Saldana and Marco Perego Take Their Relationsh...

It looks like Zoe Saldana has thrown her I'm-so-androgynous-I-might- raise-my-future-children-with-a-girlfriend spiel out the window. A few weeks a... READ MORE

QOTW: “Help! I Have a SWIRLING Question!R...

She says it's a "Swirl" question, but it really isn't...... READ MORE

Lead, Follow, or Get Out of the Way: BB&W Is N...

I think perhaps some of the fans of BB&W don't understand what this site is about. It's not just a swirling club. It's also about (1) improving your c... READ MORE