Thriving

White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It&#...

How many of you are absolutely fed up with how some people try to make non-black men (especially white men) feel guilty about having a preference for ...
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It’s 2017. Can we FINALLY Have an Honest Con...

As I write this piece, my hamstrings are crying after I forced them to put in work on the steep dirt hills in my neighborhood. Sure; I could do squats...
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A Botched Attempt at Leaving Blackistan, and Other...

We’re having some really good discussions over on You Tube, and didn’t want you guys to miss it. We’re having some pretty in depth c...
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Too Late? 39…Four Kids…Now Wants to Gi...

Sigh. This is what I want black women to avoid. Out of wedlock children DOES lower your market value in the dating world, and there’s no way aro...
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More Black Women Need to Practice “Free Agen...

You can say whatever you want about Jennifer Lopez (JLo) and her parade of male companions, but one thing is for certain: she’s a free agent whe...
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QOTW: “Did I Give Too Much, Too Soon?”

Recently I got a question from a young lady who was very distraught about how to proceed in a “friends with benefits” situation she as hav...
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Christelyn’s Big Announcement! Swirling Arou...

This has been a secret I’ve had a really hard time keeping and am really glad I don’t have to anymore! Remember all those conversations yo...
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A Letter from a Black Man: “You are NOT obli...

Sometimes I get notes that are just so profound and timely that I just have to share. With all the railing against the segment of hateful black men wh...
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RANT: Now Black Women Married to White Men Do So t...

Chalk this under the most ridiculous and ass-backwards notion the anti-swirling activists have concocted thus far–black women in interracial rel...
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Violet Coleman: “How to manage the Becky in ...

I stumbled on this post from Violet Coleman on my Facebook feed. I thought it was so brilliant it deserved it’s very own post. Lots and lots of ...
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Exclusive: Black Woman (Madison Amelia) Who Filmed...

I got a chance to speak with Madison Amelia, the young woman who recorded the viral video of her ex boyfriend’s racist rant about black people a...
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Avoid the “Silly Girl” Syndrome at All...

For those of you not in the know, a former shamed Virginia delegate and lawyer named Joe Morrissey (59) was caught in a sexual relationship with his...
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Well Look-y Here! Young Black Girls Become the ...

I was so excited to see that Simone Biles was the sole and only focus of the handsome male gaze in this video, “Overnight” by Jake Miller....
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“Have My Baby?” What You Need to Know ...

When you think about someone in a relationship trapping their partner into a pregnancy, we often think it’s a desperate woman trying to cling to...
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