Thriving

Moving to Canada Might Just Be the Thing for Black...

It looks like our trip this summer to tour Toronto for our first Girl Who Swirls Goes Around the World tour is just in time, because it seems like all...
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If Tyrese’s Wife Can Be a “Black Queen...

The ongoing discussion about the ethnicity of Tyrese’s new wife, Samantha Lee Schwalenberg has been quite interesting. First off, I must ac...
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Danielle Bregoli: When “ghetto black chickin...

Trash rag, TMZ reported yesterday that felonious teen delinquent, Danielle Bregoli, is heading to Los Angeles to meet with producers who are interest...
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Black Women Dating Interracially a Feminist Issue?

I read an incredibly interesting comment from a reader from our Sage Steele post that honestly made a real shift in my thinking. A white woman, of all...
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CLUTCH Writer Reports On a Black Woman Who Experie...

I often go to a variety of sites to get news and updates, and CLUTCH has been one of my pit stops for years. But one article that struck me as partic...
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White Chicks, Like Seriously. Don’t You Have...

So I’m looking through my Yahoo feed and see a photo of this silly white woman who wants everyone to know she’s on her period. I am a woma...
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Try This ONE THING to Increase Your Success In Int...

We talk about traveling through different ecosystems to discover opportunities to meet quality men, but let’s face it–many black women hav...
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Azealia Banks Wants You to Buy Her Skin Bleaching ...

I weep for Azealia Banks. I can’t help it. So much beauty and talent bound up in such a tortured, tormented soul. She’s been quite unapolo...
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White Men, Black Women, THIS is When You KNOW It&#...

How many of you are absolutely fed up with how some people try to make non-black men (especially white men) feel guilty about having a preference for ...
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It’s 2017. Can we FINALLY Have an Honest Con...

As I write this piece, my hamstrings are crying after I forced them to put in work on the steep dirt hills in my neighborhood. Sure; I could do squats...
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A Botched Attempt at Leaving Blackistan, and Other...

We’re having some really good discussions over on You Tube, and didn’t want you guys to miss it. We’re having some pretty in depth c...
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Too Late? 39…Four Kids…Now Wants to Gi...

Sigh. This is what I want black women to avoid. Out of wedlock children DOES lower your market value in the dating world, and there’s no way aro...
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More Black Women Need to Practice “Free Agen...

You can say whatever you want about Jennifer Lopez (JLo) and her parade of male companions, but one thing is for certain: she’s a free agent whe...
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QOTW: “Did I Give Too Much, Too Soon?”

Recently I got a question from a young lady who was very distraught about how to proceed in a “friends with benefits” situation she as hav...
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