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Poll: Which are You, “Black Woman” Fir...

How you see yourself affects just about every aspect of your life, so it's worth thinking about....
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Cheer up! Black women have much to celebrate becau...

Another day, another study on black women and interracial dating that sounds a little depressing. BUT these studies should not be taken as the receive...
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: Mammy, Oh Mammy, W...

In the “crooked room,” we've met the Jezebel. Now, let's meet her polar opposite: the Mammy....
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Question of the Week: English White Guy Asks Me Ho...

I received this note from "J," a young man living in England who is interested in black women, but it unsure how to approach them. After you read this...
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The Superwoman Complex: Deepak Chopra Breaks Down ...

Innate social messaging systems tell Black women that they have to overcome, challenge, beat, and win every single thing they do. And, the Superwoman ...
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: Melissa Harris-Per...

You've heard about the "crooked room," now meet the characters posted on the walls. First up, the Jezebel....
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Mammy, The Mule and Equally Yoked: Black Women as ...

Celebrating the myth of the Strong Black Woman has mistakenly become an aspiration and an inspiration to those in certain demographics of the Black Co...
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Would You Give ‘Plan B’ To Your Daught...

Well, I have to admit I'm shocked at this one. The American Academy of Pediatrics is now recommending that teenagers be given prescriptions for Plan B...
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Commentary on the Crooked Room: Melissa Harris-Per...

Ever heard of the theory of the "crooked room?" If you haven't, maybe you have heard of Plato's Allegory of the Cave. Look around, are the images you ...
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TRJ Shrinks Yo’ Mind: Why Some Black Women C...

Check out why Tracy Renee Jones thinks some black women get prickle when someone has something nice to say....
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Fighting Back Against Street Harassment (Part One)

After a weekend of fun in San Jose and Big Sur, a friend drops me off at the Oakland airport. All the flights out of San Jose and San Francisco were s...
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Corporate Politics: Where Does Black “Natura...

Say it loud, I'm nappy and proud!?! Right?...
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