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Twitter After Dark: Life, Love and the Pursuit of ...

The title is a little sensational, but bear with me. This post is going to be spicy! The other day, I left a work event very late. When I came home, I...
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Whatever you like: T.I., Deyjah and the Duality of...

Introduction T.I., a notorious rapper turned “black elder and pundit” decided to open his dutty, stank, rancid, ugly fat trap once more to announc...
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He’s Just Not That Into You: The Case of Angela ...

Thanks to Penelope and Christelyn, I have been challenged to expand my writing repertoire beyond my weekly interviews. While I will still be interview...
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Intimacy Is Not Built Through Sex. Surprised?

  A couple of months ago, I downloaded Tinder after hearing good things about it. And in one month’s time, I had four dates with three guys, pr...
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Five Reasons Sociopaths Are So Good In Bed

He takes you to a five-star hotel and whispers to the concierge before you go into the room. You have drinks and he won’t take his eyes–al...
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National Black HIV Awareness Day: Have You Been Te...

February 7th is National HIV Awareness Day. HIV/AIDS has claimed approximately 250,745 lives over the last five years. Though much less than the 80&#...
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Village Voice Exposes R. Kelly and Our Willingness...

If you are one of those unfortunate types that still find wonderment in the music of R Kelly then you have my condolences. Above and beyond the issue ...
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Who Raped Chris Brown? Sexual Assault Has No Gende...

The internet is buzzing about the latest oral slip up coming from Public Enemy Number #1 also known as Chris Brown. Now I’m so sure this isnR...
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Come Hither: Dirty Old Man or Experienced Lover? L...

I'm often the predator, but a young girl couldn't walk around being plump and juicy without coming to learn about the dreaded neighborhood phenomena k...
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My Sex Life is None of Your Business!!! Or is it?

What women do with their privates is no one else's business and it doesn't harm anyone as long as the sex is consensual and safe right? I disagree. I ...
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Come Hither: Get Your Sex, Love, Relationship Ques...

Tracy's gonna be our sexy go-to girl!...
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Watch Those Potholes While on Your Way to Greener ...

I've been swirling since first grade and a boy chasing harlot for about as long. Surely there's something here for the respectable ladies of BB&W to l...
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Growing a Sexually Aware Young Person

There was no book to teach me how to accomplish what I felt was wrong with much of what occurs when it comes to the sexual growth of young people. As ...
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