3 of the Cutest Holiday Date Ideas

Written by: Saran Lawson   The holidays are upon us. Mistletoes are hanging in every place imaginable, and cuffing (relationship) season is in f... READ MORE

TBT: KISS the Devil, Shame Your Parents

I’m nearly still scared to admit how much the sheer sight of these men turned me on. I’d never seen anything like it, and haven’t ye... READ MORE

#YesAllWomen: Why Do People Feel So Entitled to Wo...

By Pella Another day, another mass killing in America. At least that’s what the headlines seem to say to me. It’s almost what is expected ... READ MORE

Whorish NAACP Willing to “Forgive” Don...

I have lost the last atom of respect for the organization my father was a member of–the NAACP. Apparently they are willing to “forgiveR... READ MORE

QOTW: White Guy Worried He’s ONLY Attracted ...

Hi Christelyn, I discovered you on Youtube. I enjoy your input on IR dating and would definitely consider you the “expert” on this topic o... READ MORE

The Great Debate: Should WM and BW Get Together Be...

Anyone that hangs around IR blogs for a significant length of time,  has already noticed that *some* black women express the following: “Black ... READ MORE

A Heartfelt Letter from a White Guy, Wondering How...

I don’t know if you guys realize how much of an impact this site has, and how many notes I get like this on a weekly basis. Men you thought woul... READ MORE

Sh!t Haters Say to Discourage Black Women From Dat...

Attention haters, I have a confession. I only engage you in conversation in order to do the following: To demonstrate how much of an idiot you are, to... READ MORE

Listen white guys, you REALLY need to get over you...

I recently ran across a post from a “Pick Up Artist” site  by an expert giving advice to non-black men on how to date black women. It was... READ MORE

Are Black Women Safe Anywhere?

Renisha McBride was in a car accident at 2:30 am last Saturday. Having been in a horrible accident myself this year, I know how frantic one can become... READ MORE

Discussion: Do We Opt Out of Mental Health Help in...

But could this be a good thing?... READ MORE

Black Women Scare You? Get Real!

Is it fair when people, men in particular, express fear of black women?... READ MORE

How Nothing-But-A-Black-Man (NBABM) Women Really R...

Take a look at what happens when these women open their big mouths....... READ MORE

Guest Poster, Stang Brumfield, Weighs in On Crazy ...

"This all reminds me of the way the South acted after Lincoln begrudgingly signed to free the slaves. The law was in place but the South did what the... READ MORE