Sad News: Former BB&W ‘Hottie’ Succumbs to Cancer at 41


I received some devastating news from my friend, Niki Chambers, who told me that my long-time Facebook friend and former "Hottie of the Week," Jason … [Read more...]

Dark Girls Can’t Wear Red Lipstick, Huh? #NoBareLips30 Tells Black Women to Define Their Own Beauty.

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Of course we all know about the recent passing of Karyn Washington, and her work to encourage black women to love their shade and her … [Read more...]

Episode of Three of “Swirlr” is Here! And the Drama Begins…

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In this episode, clients Quintana and Kurt interact with the candidates to test their chemistry. Kurt seems to hit it off with each of the three girls … [Read more...]

In This Version of “Rosemary’s Baby,” the Demon Seed is Hosted by an Interracial Couple.


One of my favorite 1960's movies of all time is Rosemary's Baby, a tale of financially struggling New York newlyweds whose luck inexplicably changes … [Read more...]

Interracial Couples and a Word on Safety: Memphis Couple Needs Our Advice.


Got this note this morning: Hi, my name is Gary, and I would like to say first that I find your advice to be very helpful. I am 22 and my fiance … [Read more...]

And the States with the Highest Interracial Marriages Are…


April has been the start of news that I've been expecting for over a decade. Interracial marriages are becoming more accepted, more prolific, and it … [Read more...]

I’m Loving Swiss Chard for Organic Gardening, and So Should You!

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  Almost mid April and there's little chance of frost anywhere, so there's no excuse for not getting outside and starting your spring and … [Read more...]

QOTW: White Guy Worried He’s ONLY Attracted to Black Women. Here’s My Take.

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Hi Christelyn, I discovered you on Youtube. I enjoy your input on IR dating and would definitely consider you the "expert" on this topic on the … [Read more...]

Like, Whoa! Black Women Featured AGAIN on BuzzFeed…But In a Good Way.


Yes, I'm sure you're all still a bit miffed about that video BuzzFeed did about interracial dating perferences, but there is good news--this … [Read more...]

Founder of “For Brown Girls,” and Advocate for US, Karyn Washington Committed Suicide, and I Suck.


Today I've been whining about breaking the screen on my laptop computer and complaining about a radio show that went horribly, terribly wrong, and I … [Read more...]

Buzzfeed Does Creative Video On Who’s Most Interested in Interracial Dating. What’s Your Take?

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So what does this video reveal? Racial biases and stereotypes still persist. But who gives a shit? It all a numbers game, so play to win. … [Read more...]