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61 “Young Teach,” Former BB&W Blogger is Getting Hitched!!

“Young Teach,” Former BB&W Blogger is Getting Hitched!!

I’m totally over the moon! You regulars remember ‘Young Teach,’ the really cute music teacher from Tennessee who had recently acted upon his desire to date black women. So he started a blog, “Adventures of Swirl Man,” and bought “Swirling,” and read it in two days. He was a contributor  here for a while, and [...]


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33 Health: Why I Never Want to Be Like My Mother.

Health: Why I Never Want to Be Like My Mother.

Imagine having a diabetic mother that demands you go out and buy her a greasy cheeseburger and fries because what you have at your house is too healthy.


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6 It’s Back! Lonnie’s Friday Funny!!

It’s Back! Lonnie’s Friday Funny!!

After a hiatus, Lonnie’s cartoon strips are BACK!


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56 You Think You Had it Rough?! Check Out This WWII Swirl Couple

You Think You Had it Rough?! Check Out This WWII Swirl Couple

After reading this, no should should be complaining about how hard it is to swirl…


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42 ‘Swirling of a Different Kind’: Interracial Adoptions…How Do Those REALLY Work Out?

‘Swirling of a Different Kind’: Interracial Adoptions…How Do Those REALLY Work Out?

Ever wonder what goes on in the mind of two white parents who adopt non-white children?


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14 Why I Love Being My Kids’ Mom…

Why I Love Being My Kids’ Mom…

No matter how big the headache, I’d never want it any other way.


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13 Death of a Legend: Soap Goddess, Jeanne Cooper Died This Week!

Death of a Legend: Soap Goddess, Jeanne Cooper Died This Week!

I am an unapologetic fan of the soaps. Did I mention I won’t apologize?


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275 BET Heiress Marries a Rainbeau! Just Goes to Show Rich Folks Want Ratchet For Eveyone Else EXCEPT Their Own.

BET Heiress Marries a Rainbeau! Just Goes to Show Rich Folks Want Ratchet For Eveyone Else EXCEPT Their Own.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m THRILLED for Paige. I just wish that EVERY little black girl was cherished and protected and married off to a “perfect guy for her,” not just the daughters of rich men who are responsible for advocated a lifestyle that grants the exact opposite to “ordinary” black girls.


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16 Beyond Black & White Featured on “Love  J’s” On UStream!

Beyond Black & White Featured on “Love J’s” On UStream!

Last weekend I had the BEST and REALEST conversation with just about the cutest couple I’ve ever seen, Justin and Joy, otherwise known as “The Love J’s.” We had a really great discussion about the blog, interracial relationships, black men and black women dynamics, and the astronomical out-of-wedlock rate in the black community.


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19 The Race Factor: Are You Out-Filtering Good Prospects Online?

The Race Factor: Are You Out-Filtering Good Prospects Online?

Online dating has allowed millions to make connections with people they may have otherwise never met. There’s a website for virtually every interest and preference so dating can be likened to shopping at the largest online matchmaking superstore. Sometimes the choices are much too many, so sites have addressed these challenges with filter systems based on racial preferences, age, and interests. But often those filters work more like a hatchet than a scalpel, and eliminate exposure to viable love matches.


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33 BB&W Fitness Challenge Part Two: Eat for Your (Apple) Body Type!!

BB&W Fitness Challenge Part Two: Eat for Your (Apple) Body Type!!

There are two basic body types–apple and pear. Apples, like me, accumulate fat in abdomen, back and arms. The pear accumulates fat in the thighs, butt, and legs. These two separate body types need different methods to cut the fat, so you need to do a quick assessment of which type you are before you move any further into this post.


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111 New Study Reveals 72% of Women Don’t Call Themselves Feminists

New Study Reveals 72% of Women Don’t Call Themselves Feminists

It looks like the discussions we have had about feminism on this blog have not happened in a vacuum. The debate continues about whether many–NOT ALL–of the tenents of feminism have backfired in the new generation of men and women.


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