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Gender Equality Means Boys AND Girls Might Be Heaux, Study Says.
It looks like girls are no longer solo in bearing the brunt of stigma for sleeping around. According to a study by the American Sociological Association, almost half of college students judge men and women with similar sexual histories by the same standard and hold equally negative attitudes towards both their male and female peers who they believe hook up “too much.”
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The Secret Sex Lives of Teenagers: Of Hidden Pearls and the Smell of Sweet Roses
As women of color, we must ask ourselves, why does society fear budding sexuality? Sexual development goes hand in hand with walking upright, learning to make decisions and other milestones we prepare young people for, yet we ignore this.
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GAT-DL Okey-Doke: Black Women “Breeding Out Blackness”?
When I see something mentioned repeatedly within a short period of time at different locations, it’s not within me to see it as merely a coincidence. Sometimes, some people really want to get a point (or a fear) across and they will flap their gums all over the place to make it happen. Right now, [...]
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Trojan ‘Charged Sex Life Survey’ Released, Black Sexuality Singled Out for Study and Commentary
“While the overall results of the survey are interesting to read, it seems that African American sexual behavior has been singled out for the lions share of media attention. And I think I know why.”
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Low Libido: Just “Life” or Something Worrisome?
This piece originally ran in the now defunct (I think) Pregnancy magazine in 2010. Watching that cute video of the Nulls inspired me to dig this out this little diddy for the folks who requested the blog talk more about sexual health and lady parts.
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She’s Moving On: Race Woman No More
“As long as Black women continue to accept their subordinate status in the Black community, Black people will continue their descent into the gutter. Any community that is too foolish to listen to the voices of the women is doomed for failure. I learned the hard way that being a Race Woman has a high price and I cannot afford to do so any longer. No longer will I defend the actions of men who do not give a rat’s ass about women who look like me or my daughters.”
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Growing a Sexually Aware Young Person
There was no book to teach me how to accomplish what I felt was wrong with much of what occurs when it comes to the sexual growth of young people. As a mother, I wanted what most all mothers want and that is to have an environment for my child that was better than the one available to me.
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Corset Magazine, Issue #2: The Physical and Psychological Benefits of Having an Orgasm
The “Big O.” The “little death.” Climax.
Whatever you want to call it, the second issue of Arielle Loren’s genius endeavor, Corset Magazine, is all about orgasms. I’ve seen it and it is W.O.W.
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Hide Yo Kids! Indian Girl, Sex Expert Gives Window Into Indian Sex Culture; Masturbation
We talk a lot about swirling an interculture, but always from a male perspective. That combined with her thoughts on masturbation makes it a BB&W must-see/read.
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Time To Have A Conversation About The Connection Between Sex, Children and Responsibility
Marriage–of the legally and spiritually binding type–is the safest way to raise children here in America. I think it’s about time for Americans to ask themselves what do we need to do to make our marriages more like the kinds of marriages that Europeans are experiencing–even if the ‘marriage’ that Europeans are partaking of is not one that involves standing before a judge and pledging ’till death do us part’. Clearly, Europeans–and German’s in particular–know something we don’t know or have yet to acknowledge.
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How Soon is TOO Soon for Sex?
How long should you wait? Third date? Three months? When you’re engaged? Married?
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Cray Cray: Why Are Some Republicans Going on Abortion Witch Hunts?
Just caught wind of a huge fart cloud coming from Bob Morris, an Indiana lawmaker who insists that the Girl Scouts–yes; those evil peddlers of mint chocolate cookies–are in collusion with Planned Parenthood to promote GASP!! abortion and homosexuality and is demanding an immediate investigation.
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Flirting Tips Courtesy of “Dating for Dummies”
When you’re on a date, flirting is a delightful way to make your date — and you, for that matter — feel irresistible and tingly all over. The point of flirting with your date is interest; that’s why it’s so alluring. Here are some flirting do’s and don’ts:
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