Irene and Aaron’s Blissful UK Union

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I happened upon this lovely couple on Pinterest.  Looking into them a little further, I found Irene and Aaron's wedding pics.  They are so lovely and … [Read more...]

Watch Real Black Women with their Non-Black Boyfriends

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I was just goofing around on YouTube so I thought I'd share this with you. Many people don't think Black women can get along with non-Black men. Well … [Read more...]

Farhia and Jason, Two Ancient Cultures – Modern Day Love

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   Jason and Farhia I saw Farhia and Jason's beautiful wedding of April 11, 2013 in pictures.  Many have seen this couple's fab photos as they … [Read more...]

Is This Blog Making Black Women Look Desperate?


This is a blog that frequently discusses love and relationships. The"Swirling" book that is on the side of the page advertises a desire to seek love … [Read more...]

Kiss Worry Goodbye: The MUA Box Keeps Your Privacy Completely Private

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Pssst...Hey you! Yeah, you with the unmentionable objects kept in the draw with your other unmentionables. Have you ever wondered how you can conceal … [Read more...]

Photo of the Day: At the In-Laws Without ‘The Hubster’


The kids and I flew in from San Diego last night to spend Thanksgiving with Grandma and Grandpa in Westport, Connecticut. For the first time since The … [Read more...]

Somebody Call the GAT-DL! Another White Dude (Who Doesn’t Want Black Women) Marries One!!


I'm admittedly not a fan of WWE, but I AM a fan of hot dudes. And I thought with all the negativity we might make a little fun. Ladies, feast your … [Read more...]

Franchesca Marries Her Boo on the Beach!!

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You Tube star, "Chescaleigh" announced yesterday that she married her best friend. They are adorable. My heart bursts every time I see acknowledged as … [Read more...]

Swirling and Marriage: Tricia and Peter

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Oh look at Tricia and Peter of San Francisco.  What a beautiful bride and handsome groom.  Can you get more basic than a natural but glam style … [Read more...]

The Solution for Educated Black Women Who Want to Get Married and Stay Married: Seriously Consider Dating Some White Boys.

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I went to a funeral today for a cousin's husband who died suddenly from a heart attack. Both in their fifties and her first marriage, my cousin was … [Read more...]

Black Women Need Men Like Cory Alexander Haywood Like a Fish Needs a Bicycle.

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#InterracialRelationshipsAre4BlackMen. At least that's what Cory Alexander Haywood would like for us to believe, because hell, only black men, in … [Read more...]